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James / From: Homer P. 6/8/2005 - - James... You always took the time to make people feel special. I remember this Christmas at the Bush's, how you made Jonathan feel so welcome. This site is dedicated to you and your family James. My way of allowing the world to tell you and yours, how SPECIAL you truly were. We love and will miss you! See you on the golf courses of heaven.

James / From: Hudson Fire Department 6/9/2005 - - Courage, Bravery, Honor, and Dedication represent only a fraction of your qualities. We will never forget our fallen brother. James We love you! Cheers, tears and beers... xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Jimmy / From: Cari McGratten 6/9/2005 - - Jim, I talk to you every day and I know you are listening. I will love you always and miss you forever. Thanks for the good times and the amzing memories. See you later buddy! ~ Love Care

James / From: Jane Pateridis 6/9/2005 - - You were one of our babies. You touched lives James, and in death are touching even more, know that! Rest safely in the Arms of the Lord - until we meet again.

James / From: Jessie Vaillancourt 6/9/2005 - - I'm still hoping this is a bad dream and that you'll show up at HYC with that mount guay shirt I always bugged you about. This is so unfair. You were the greatest. We're all going to miss you, we miss you already. My deepest sympathies to the the firemen, to your parents and to Jess.

Diane / From: Kim Courteau 6/9/2005 - - Diane, I just wanted you to know that I am so sorry for the loss of your child James. When I heard the news on Tuesday morning, I couldn't believe it of course but soon realized it was indeed true. I am truly heartbroken for you and yours and would like to extend my deepest sympathies to you and your family. I spoke to Evelyne and it was so sad to hear her pain for she adored James. I remember meeting James over 15 years ago at your home in Hudson—he was a sweet angel and he will remain your angel forever Diane. Kim Courteau

James family & friends / From: St-Paul Fire Department, New-Brunswick 6/9/2005 - - We would like to express our deepest sympathy to James family, friends, and fellow firefighters.

Hudson Fire & Family / From: Don & Barb (HQ) 6/9/2005 - - We would like to express our deepest sympathy to the Ratchliffe family and the Hudson Fire Department on your loss. Hudson Fire has always had a special place in our hearts and we share your loss.

Hudson firefighters & Ratcliffe family / From: Pierre Surprenant 6/9/2005 - - It is with regret that I was informed of James passing. In this period of deep sadness that both the Ratcliffe and fire families are going through, I personally and on behalf of all employees of the Ottawa Int'l Airport Fire Services whish to offer you and your families our deepest sympathy and condolences. Pierre Surprenant Fire Chief Ottawa Int'l Airport

James / From: Steph Gobeil 6/9/2005 - - James, I want you to know hat I think about you everyday. You were more than a friend to me, you were like family. We spent so many special occasions together, whether it was Thanksgiving dinner, New year's eve parties at teh Ollivers, or just a random summer night with a pool party at the Dicksions house. Getting the privilege to work with you at the HYC is something that I will never forget, and I thank you for all that you taught me. You touched my life in a special way and I thank youo for all of the memories that I now share with you. I know that one day we will meet again, but until that day comes you take care. Love always, Steph

Family, friends, colleagues of James / From: Edmond Hetu, Chelsea FD, Chelsea QC 6/9/2005 - - James' sacrifice saddens and touches us all. "Cowards die many times before their deaths The valiant never taste of death but once." -- William Shakespeare

James family / Hudson firefighters / From: Sarah Clayton 6/9/2005 - - I would like to express my deepest sympathies on your loss. I remember James' smiling face very well from the HYC. He touched many people in life, and now, in death. James accomplished so much in a short time, you must all be very proud.

James / From: Matt O'Grady 6/9/2005 - - For everytime I'll see your house, to everytime I'll see a yellow Protege5...I'll always think about you. For everytime I will be alone missing you, you will never be forgotten. I love you James and I was always proud of you even when I didn't say it. We grew up together since we were 5 and I'll always consider you a brother. Thank you for everything you've done for me and for others in need. I'll miss you forever. cheers.

James / From: Lorelei Reid 6/9/2005 - - You were a good kid. Full of laughs, and potential. You had the world going for you...and it was taken away all too soon. I miss you buddy. Take care of yourself up there. We'll be thinking of you, for now and for always. xoxo

James / From: Simon Petry 6/9/2005 - - Growing up with you is something I won't be able to forget. Something inside me won't admit that you're gone... take care in the afterlife bro. My deepest sympathies goes to your family.

Hudson Fire and family / From: Vancouver Fire/Rescue 6/9/2005 - - Rest in Peace Brother............

Friends and Family of James / From: A fellow brother, From Musquash Fire Dept. in N.B. 6/9/2005 - - No words could take away the pain you are all feeling, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of despair. Not only have you lots a son or friend, but the town has lost an up coming Fire Fighter. My deepest sympathies. God Bless.

Diane, Peter & Jessica / From: Sue & Peter 6/9/2005 - - Our thoughts are with you at this sad time. We loved watching James grow up and end up at the University of Ottawa with Jenn. From graduation with Laura, a mere 3 years ago, to working at the HYC bar with Jenn, our paths crossed frequently. The pain all your friends and family are enduring is beyond human comprehension. Our love and thoughts are with you and your family today, always and forever. God bless all of you.

James / From: Pt Hardy 6/9/2005 - - Rest In Peace From All FireFighters at Pt Hardy Vol Fire Dept.

Hudson fire department / From: Stéphane BRUNET 6/9/2005 - - Mes plus sincères condoléances à la famille, amis et la famille des pompiers du Hudson fire depatment. Puissent nos pensée vous accompagner durant ces moments difficiles. Stéphane BRUNET www.INCENDIE.com

James / From: Vaughan Fire and Rescue 6/9/2005 - - Rest in peace.

James / From: Joey Young 6/10/2005 - - James, more than anything I would like to say that I am proud of you brother. The qualities of which you exuded were no less than admirable and inspiring. Your presence touched us all, and will continue to do so, for You gave to those who knew you the incentive to strive for excellence, god knows you did James. If I could only be half the man you were I would be a better person. God Bless you James , you were a true hero. Save me a seat up there.. - Joey

friends&family of james / From: Kevin 6/10/2005 - - James made me learn not to blink, cuz theres so much to miss. He thought me so much in the seemingly short time i spent knwoing him. I'll miss him a lot, and my heart goes out to anyone who knew this great guy.

Hudson Fire Dept / From: Port McNeill Fire/Rescue 6/10/2005 - - Our thoughts and prayers extend to you all and the family of our firefighting brother whom is now lost but never to be forgotten. Your brothers and sisters Port McNeill Volunteer Fire Dept Vancouver Island, B.C.

Ratcliffe family and friends / From: Kingston Fire and Rescue 6/10/2005 - - Rest in peace and may God bless the family

Diane,Peter and Jessica / From: Miralda and Luigi Colizza-Burlington,Ontario 6/10/2005 - - Sincerest sympathies. We share your sorrow with all our hearts. Please extend our feelings also to the Grandparents. We will always remember James very fondly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. - Miralda and Luigi

James / From: Rachael 6/10/2005 - - James, Im still in shock about everything.I think I’m in denial.I don’t know how to deal with this because it’s never happened to me before.I’m trying to keep myself incredibly busy because I can’t stop repeating and replaying everything in my head.It just dosen’t make sence.I can’t believe it’s even possible.I can’t believe it’s really real. I pretend that your still here. I keep on telling myself that your still away at school. It’s the only way for me to be ok. So many pictures and songs bring back so many memories.I know I haven’t known you my whole life like most people but from the day I moved here you made me feel that way. I know since you left for school we haven’t really talked much but I still remember how nice you were to me and everytime you came down you were always so understanding and always so concerned about how I was doing.You were always trying to help me out in so many different ways. I remember the first time I met you when I first moved here at school everyone expected me to be a snob but you were the only one who said to everyone that I was just shy and that I was such a nice girl. I remember even though you were such good friends with pat, you always saw both sides to our fights, you were always so understanding and fair. You always cared about how everyone felt. James, I’m going to miss all the parties with you and I know you would want us all to go out and party anyways but I can’t see myself going out and having a good time with this on my mind..I’m not going to forget you. Even after weeks, months, years I promise I’m going to always remember you James. I’m gonna celebrate your birthday every year. I remember the last time I saw you was over the weekend at IGA. I was busy at my cash but I looked up and saw you a few cashes over but you didn’t see me. I was waiting for you to notice but you were turned the other way. Usually I would just wait to see you next time but something told me to make sure I said hi to you. You still didn’t look over so yelled over to you and you didn’t hear me. Still, something kept pushing me so I went over and said hi again. You looked over at me with this big smile asking me how I was and days later when I heard the news I then realized what that feeling was. James, I just wish we hung out more, I wish I was more prepared for this day,I wish I had more pictures of you but most of all I wish I had the chance to say Goodbye. I know this sounds typical to say but I really truly mean it when I say you were the nicest guy. And I’m sure everyone always says this but I would have never expected you. This stuff just dosen’t happen. I feel like were in a movie. James, I believe you were chosen for a reason and I think it was your time because you were just that perfect amazing guy whos accomplished so much in your life.You left on good terms and I’m glad that you have done so well and that you were so happy. And we should celebrate that you had such a great life.You were right in the middle of everyone and you brought us all together and were going to all need eachother. I know your up there watching down on all of us and It still bothers me to think how you must feel but I hope you know how proud we are of the person you are.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Jacki 6/10/2005 - - My heart aches for you - how truly saddened I am that your precious boy will no longer occupy a place on this earth, but he will instead be honored a place above. James has entered into a higher life, and we shall all meet there again one day. James was blessed to be born into your family - just as you were blessed to have him come into your lives. And all those he touched, from childhood on, are blessed to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with you - Jacki

James family and Hudson firefigthers / From: Ste-Marthe fire department 6/10/2005 - - Our sympathy to you all .

Jess / From: Jen Ko 6/10/2005 - - Condolences to you and your family during this hard time. The few times i met James at UWO, i just found him to be fantastic! Wish i could be there for you right now. Warm hugs from around the world. xoxo

Hudson Fire Dept. and James Family and Friends / From: Capt. Todd Conley, Loyalist Township Emergency Services 6/10/2005 - - I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. When a Firefighter passes away, we, (all firefighters) greive. This is so true of this terrible accident. Our flag is at Half Staff to remember James our Fallen Brother. May God ride with you through this difficult time.

Ratcliffe Family / From: Judy Aro 6/10/2005 - - My heartfelt condolences at this sad time. May the Lord be your strength.

james / From: michel desjardins 1038 6/10/2005 - - mes plus sincere condoleance a la famille amis collegues de james . que nos prierent puissent vous accompagner dans ces moment difficiles qu'est un deuil. michel desjardins pompier 1038 de st-gregoire

The Ratcliffes / From: Emerich, Pat & James Papp 6/10/2005 - - Many years ago we had the honors of coaching James in soccer. Even when he was younger, he was a great team player. We are all deeply sorrowed to hear of his passing.

Ratcliffe Family and Hudson Fire Department / From: Beaconsfield/Baie d'Urfe Volunteer Rescue Squad 6/10/2005 - - We would like to express our deepest sympathy at this time of great sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Diane, Peter and Jessica / From: Alan Dee, Vancouver B.C. 6/10/2005 - - I was very saddened to here the news of James today. I would like to offer you my sincere condolances. From reading about James i realize that he was a fine young man and a precious part of your lives. My thoughts are with you all at this sad time.

James / From: Alex 6/10/2005 - - It was a privilege to know you and to grow up with you Jimmy, I will always remember the times we had at the HYC. You may be gone, but you will never be forgotten. rest in peace.

James / From: James Bush 6/10/2005 - - It is as though time has stopped but the world continues to turn around me. People talk to me but I do not hear them or perhaps I do not want to hear them because then this terrible nightmare will become a reality. I see them laughing and crying but I feel nothing, and everything too. I have not cried yet but I weep inside. Everywhere I go we have some sort of memory and amazingly they are all great. I return to your house and remember all of the things we did as kids; water fights, sleepovers, eating hot dogs, playing video games, talking about girls, ... , I feel like the list could go on to infinity but it is not enough. What about the future we so often talked about? I cry only now and I am all alone. I sail to where I wish all time could return and find peace in knowing that you were, are happy. You are like a second brother and will forever be a part of me - love James

James / From: Jeffrey Morris 6/10/2005 - - James, You always made me laugh at school and when I was with you at Annies or the Chat. So many great times. You were an amazing person and will never be forgotten by me. May you rest in peace and enjoy the After life.

Ratcliffe Family / From: Forbes Campbell 6/10/2005 - - Shocking to hear of a such a sudden death at home when you are on the other side of the world. Was informed this evening of the accident. I remember james from my summers at HYC. He was one of us multi-taskers (bar, maintenance, and BBQ)...good times. Obviously, no words can convey...my thoughts go out to you all and James.

The Ratcliffe family & Hudson Fire / From: Lanark Highlands Fire Service 6/10/2005 - - We feel your pain. When a firefighter passes on, by any means, one is taken from our family, pulled from the fold. It's that much harder to accept, and understand when they are doing something we do so frequently, preparing ourselves to to show Courage, Bravery, and Professionalism when the call is placed for us to help others in their time of need. James shows them all, and made the sacrafice we all dread facing. Our hearts and thoughts are with you in your time of need. Godspeed James. Rest In Peace Brother.

James / From: Heather Laflamme 6/10/2005 - - James, I still can’t believe it. I keep thinking I will see you in your yellow Protégé with your red Mount Gay shirt and that this is some type of sick practical joke or HYC prank. But I know inside it’s not, as much as I wish it was. I am grateful for having had the opportunity to get to know you and work with you over the years, your ethics, morals and integrity is something that many of us could learn from, your patience with us girls at the club was truly remarkable, you are one of a kind. My heart goes out to your family and friends, Jessica, Mr. and Mrs. Ratcliffe you are in my thoughts and prayers. James, you will be sadly missed in this town by all of us, may you rest in peace. Love, Heather

James/Family/Friends / From: Unknown 6/10/2005 - - I may not have known you James, but from what I read ,You touched so many lives, and its sad that such a great life was taken at such a young age. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family God Bless, and Rest in Peace Hero.

James family & friends / From: Jeff Hackett and the Fredericton Junction, New Brunswick 6/10/2005 - - There are no words to explain how deeply sorry we are for the family of James Ratcliffe. Although I didnt know him he was still my brother. RIP James.

James / From: Rebecca Payant 6/10/2005 - - To a person none of us will ever forget. It was a pleasure spending those summer working together.

Diane, Peter, Jessica and family / From: Alison and Claude 6/10/2005 - - This is truly a time in our lives when words cannot express the depth of our grief. James was an extraordinary young man who has left us much too early. Our hearts ache for your unbelievable loss. We will all find strength in the many memories of James that we will cherish forever.

Diane, Peter and Jessica / From: Westwood High Home & School 6/10/2005 - - Our thoughts ane prayers are with you. James was a valuable asset to his community. He will be greatly missed and remembered always for what he gave to his school, community, friends and family. Our deepest sympathies.

James / From: Amanda O. 6/10/2005 - - I've wanted to write something here since Homer told me about the Web site, but it is so hard to find the right thing to say. James, I am thinking of you all the time, and we will all think of you everyday - you showed us what life can be if we set out to live it to the max, and now it's up to all of us to go out and live it. I can't imagine our community without you in it, and I'll always remember the special man that you were, and how you changed us for the better, in life and in your passing. We love you James, and we're thinking of you always, forever and ever. Sending you a big old hug, Amanda

Family / Class of '02 / From: Laura W 6/10/2005 - - I may have not been the best of friends with James, but I had the honor of going to preschool with this young chap and going to high school with him as well. James touched my life in ways I cannot put into words. Just knowing that I will never again see him again at work at the IGA or at a friend's party just makes me so upset. I want to express my deepest condolences to the family and to the class of '02-- we all got to know him in many ways and we will all miss him. It is impossible to get over something as tragic as this, yet we can help each other get through it. We can never walk by a classmate and ignore saying hi again, because it could very well be the last chance we get to... God bless you James, and we will see you again.

James, his family, friends, brothers / From: Anna 6/10/2005 - - James, I know you’re up there watching us now. You may not know it, but you were such a great influence on all of us. In such a short period of time you have brightened so many lives, you've given more than some people do in a whole lifetime. I like to think Chief Milot was right, when he said about the Hudson fire department, “Well, now we’ve got a guardian angel watching over us”. We’ll miss you James, you'll forever be in our hearts.

James / From: Rob 6/10/2005 - - James, you have been my friend since I can remember and I don’t know if I have the strength to really let you go but since the accident I guess I have to learn to grieve. I have this ach in my chest and I just want to cry but I feel like I have let you down because they just won’t fall. I am now a brick of ice and I don’t know if I can wake up tomorrow to face the world when I know you’re no longer in it. I remember when we were kids, I don’t know if I ever really told you but I always looked up to you, not just because of your height, because you really were a gifted kid. I remember when you told me you hade a semi-photographic memory and that’s why you could read at a grade three level when we were only in the first. I think I asked you to tutor me then but I just wanted to be your friend. Thank you for letting me be your friend. You were amazing and you stuck up for me, that’s something that gets me. You might just have been one of the most understanding soul that has ever lived. You accepted me for who I was and that’s why I love you, you were a best friend and god am I going to miss you. You’re my hero, love Rob.

James / From: Don D. 6/10/2005 - - James, you always made me smile and I am smiling right now as I write this. Remember when you and your father, Trevor and I spent a week together skiing at Panorama, BC, 2 years ago. I said to you, “James, we will be together all week, no one around but us. Therefore I request that you address me as Don.” And with that glint in your eye you replied, “Sure thing, Mr. Dickison, whatever you say.” James, if I never said it or showed you before, I am saying it now. “I am so proud to know you, son.” Rest assured, you have left your family in good hands.

Family, Friends & Hudson FD / From: Mathieu Cormier #02 6/10/2005 - - On behalf of the Riviere-Beaudette FD, I would like to express our condolences. Whenever something like this happens it touches all of us deeply.

A Fallen Firefighter's Prayer
Brother, when you weep for me, remember that it was meant to be.
Lay me down and when you leave, remember I’ll be at your sleeve.
In every dark and choking hall, I’ll be there as you slowly crawl.
On every roof in driving snow, I’ll hold your coat, and you will know.
The house from which I now respond, is overstaffed with heroes gone.
Men who answered one last bell, did the job and did it well.
As firefighters we understand, that death’s card dealt in our hand.
A card we hope we never play, but one we hold there anyway.
That card is something we ignore, as we crawl across a weakened floor.
For we know that we’re the only prayer, for anyone that might be there.
So remember as you wipe your tears, the joy I knew throughout the years.
As I did the job I loved to do, I pray that thought will see you through.

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. God speed James.

James and Family / From: Laura Tresidder 6/10/2005 - - My deepest sympathy to the Ratcliffe family. Jess, always know that I want to be there for you whenever you need. James, I miss you tons but I know that as long as I speak to you, you'll always be there. Thank you for the memories. I'll be seeing you. Love always, Laura

James / From: Robyn Gurr 6/10/2005 - - James had such a great spirit. He always acknowledged people he barely knew, like myself. He would be just messing around or doing nothing at all, but he could always put a smile on my face. He’s taught me to appreciate all the little things in life. Thank you for everything you've done James. We are all so proud of you. I hope you know that. You've taught us well. I miss you James. You’ll always be in our hearts. Take Care

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Tiina Kukkonen 6/10/2005 - - My deepest condolences for the loss of such a fine young man. The shock of this terrible tragedy has hit everyone in the town of Hudson, mainly because James touched everyone in some way. Whether it was his kind gestures, his funny jokes, or simply saying "hello" with a big smile on his face, James made everyone feel welcome and at ease. I have very fond memories of him from leadership in high school, as do many I'm sure. The fact that he took the time to be so involved in his school and community shows how much he cared and wanted to make a difference, which he most certainly did. He is the representation of everything I, and many others, hope to be in our lifetimes. To have accomplished so much in so little time is really incredible and an inspiration to us all. One can only hope that there are more like him in the world. We are all thankful to have had him in our lives and community. He will be sorrily missed.

Family & Friends / From: Captain Paul Smithson 6/10/2005 - - On behalf of the Devon Volunteer Fire Department , I offer condolences from myself and the whole department. Your brothers in arms. Devon Fire Department Devon Alberta.

James / From: Fraser 6/10/2005 - - you changed our world. we will never forget

James/Ratcliffe family / From: Hudson Friend 6/10/2005 - - Family: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. We are all in a state of shock. We are all here for you no matter what it should be. Stay Strong for each other. James: You are a beautiful person and will ALWAYS be remebered.No tears express the pain caused. Your courage has taught me alot. It has shown me many values that I did not appreciate before. Rest In Peace.Lots of Love.

James and Family / From: Erik Francoeur 6/10/2005 - - I offer my most heartfelt condolences to the family and friends of such an influential human being. James was truly a mentor to us all. He will be remembered as a remarkable man having touched so many lives in so few years. James, we will always hold you near our hearts.

James / From: Kelly Struthers 6/10/2005 - - James- I will be forever grateful for the friendship we had. Your perspective, advice, truly opened my eyes to so much. I keep ending up at the Yacht Club expecting to see your car, your smile, you. I'm so happy we had those late night talks at the bar, the deals we would make, and the theories we would come up with. You were so special, hilarious, and so important to everyone who you cared for. We're all going to miss you enormously. Eventhough you were with us for such a short time you will be with us forever. Cheers buddy. Love, Kelly xox

James and family / From: Paul Tresidder 6/10/2005 - - James... as far back as I can remember, when we were kids, when Rob would invite you over, I'd be looking forward to it as much as him. You always had a kind and loving personality, as well as a genious sense of humor. You were always too smart for your age. You enjoyed life to it's fullest. Not once did you have nothing going for you. Sometimes life isn't fair cause you've only got one shot, but you made your shot count. I will always remember you. I miss you. Diane, Peter and Jess; I want you all to know that I think of you every day and if there is anything I can do for you just ask. P.S. James, save me a good seat.

James / From: Laura Gobeil 6/10/2005 - - James, I can't believe that this is all really happening. To think that you won't be standing behind the yacht club bar wearing your red Mount Gay Rum shirt anymore, or partying at the Dickison's house, or coming to Smugglers' is too much to believe. I'm really going to miss you James, you were such an amazing person and had a way of always making people happy. You will never be forgotten.

James / From: Suzie G 6/10/2005 - - James, you were always willing to listen and always made me feel so welcome. Your heart was full of love and respect. You were truely an amazing human being and such a good friend... You'll forever be in my heart and in my thoughts, love forever & always... xox suzie.

James / From: Pat Maillet 6/10/2005 - - Buddy I have nothing but good memories of you, whether it was just hanging out at the Dickisons, or enjoying a few beers at the Chat. You are and always will be a great guy, you will be missed and remembered forever. "Did they actually serve us Big Mac's?"

James / From: Mike Bush 6/10/2005 - - All that i can say to you James is Thank you for everything you did for me and my family. You have been a part of my life since the first day that i can remember. You and James where bestest of friends. You helped mold my brother into the man that he is, and helped mold me into that man that I will be. I know that you have always looked out for me as i grew up, everytime id see you, you'd check up, make sure im not doing drugs, hanging out with the wrong kids and basicly just keeping out of trouble. But i want to thank you most for beeing there for my brother, from the good to the bad you have been a part of his life, and in return a part of mine. When we meet again I will bring you 11 beers of my 12 pack and one loolie pop. You will never be forgotton James, ill see you soon. -Mike

James & Family / From: A parent 6/11/2005 - - All our kids grew up together, James I'll always remeber you as a great, loving, thoughtful man! My heart is with your Family !

Hudson Fire and family / From: Hearst Fire/rescue 6/11/2005 - - Rest in Peace Brother............

The Ratcliffe's / From: The McKirdy's of St Lazare 6/11/2005 - - As parents of three young boys, we cannot imagine your loss. Our thoughts are with your family and your son's friends. Our sincerest sympathies. The McKirdy's

James / From: Anonymous 6/11/2005 - - You are a very special person and you touched many more lives than you'll ever know. My compassion, sympathy and love to your family and all of your great friends.

James / From: Lauren Connolly 6/11/2005 - - I don't know how to say goodbye to you, mainly because I don't want to, how do you say goodbye to someone when you don't want them to leave? I'm having a hard time realizing that I really do need to say goodbye. I really thought it would be the six of us for a long time, the six being you, Janine, James, myself, Trev and Steph. All I could keep thinking on Monday night was how mad you were going to be to miss mine and James' wedding, you were more excited then anyone, it won't be the same without you. At one point I was thinking, I wish we hadn't wasted all that time arguing, but then I realized that was us! That was part of our friendship. It's funny, I always considered you to be a good friend but only now I know how much I really love you. I'm still worried about James and Trev, but as the week has gone on I've realized they will be there for each other. The last time I saw you was on Friday. I watched you walk down the street all by yourself, on your way home and I just thought, you didn't say goodbye! So how do you say goodbye to someone when you don't want them to leave? Goodbye James, you will be in my heart and in my mind until the day I see you again! Love always your friend - Lauren

James / From: Kelly Laflamme 6/11/2005 - - Dearest James, I'm not really sure of what to say except I can't believe you are gone, You are an amazing friend, brother and son and will always be remembered by all who have ever crossed your path. I still remember the day I was walking in wasaga, ON and I heard my name being screamed from across the street and I looked up and saw your face with a beer in your hand. I was so happy to see a familiar face. You will be truly missed James, see you again one day, next time i'll call out your name.

James and family / From: Liane 6/11/2005 - - My sympathies to the family. Your beautiful smile will never be forgotten James. Rest in peace.

James / From: Kev Tolton 6/11/2005 - - I didn't know you that well James, but you always rememberd me and said hi to me with a huge smile. I know it dosn't seem like much but that meant a lot to me. You also meant alot to my brother and all your friends. I remember you where my drug awareness guy in grade 8. But most of all when i remember you i remember this one time a few years ago when one of my friends had gotten beaten up by some older guys. Most people said that he deserved it and didnt think much of it, but when i saw you that day you came and asked me how he was doing and how you thought it was so wrong. You truely cared about people, and this week we have seen that people truely care about you. One thing i knew about you is that you never forgot a name or a face, and we'll never forget yours. RIP James

James / From: Jenny Cutler 6/11/2005 - - James, growing up together... I thought I'd have you forever. I guess no one ever realizes how easy it is to lose the ones they love. I'll always remember our summers together, you always getting in my business even if I didn't want you to-- I know it was just because you cared. I'll always remember the good advice you gave me and the way you loved your hair. I'll always remember there was a time when I called you my best friend, and you called me yours. I'll always admire you for living more in twenty years than most people do in a lifetime. My love and sympathy goes to your family, they will also always be in my heart. Even though you are no longer physically here, your spirit will be with all of us forever.

The Ratcliff Family and the members of the Hudson Fire Department / From: National Fallen Firefighters Foundation 6/11/2005 - - James will always be remembered and honored as a fallen member of our international fire service family. We share your loss and offer our support as you experience this terrible loss. Please accept our sincere condolences. - National Fallen Firefighters Foundation, Emmitsburg, Maryland

To You and your family and friends / From: Someone you touched without knowing 6/11/2005 - - I don't know you...but I know you LIke every man's son...like every parent's child I try to think.. to comprehend.. between the flowing tears Like a river that never ends, the tears continue The memories flow although I never met you, I know you. You could be my son, my child a very special very loved person You were from every sign a person greater than the physical More deep more caring than the ordinary. You were loved, you loved. Like a breath of air, a quiet rush of angels have gathered you. Be brave, and we will be brave, you have changed so many Your mom, your dad and sister they will always have you You are in theit hearts and will be forever, Like the river of tears that flows on forever, Always and forever bless you, your family and ever child and every parent God bless

Hudson firefighters & Ratcliffe family / From: Patrick Chicoine St Cesaire fire Dept 6/11/2005 - - When a brother pays the ultimate sacrifice, thousands grieve as one. We honor this brother, standing in rows of dress blues, all united, finding comfort and assurance in knowing that this brother died pursuing his quest - saving the lives of others. We draw strength from his example and know that our brother has not died in vain. We continue to follow in his footsteps; we who are so uniquely bonded together. Our brother will be welcomed into the eternal brotherhood of firefighters with open arms and a..."Welcome Home

James / From: Anonymous 6/11/2005 - - James, although I never knew you that well, the many times you extended your kindness will forever be appreciated. I dont think I could have made it through my first month of high school on my crutches without you stoping once in a while to carry me to my classes or bringing my books. I remember you every so often would check on me thereafter to make sure I was alright. Your compassion for others was incredible. The day you were taken from your family and the ones that love you was truly a tragedy. I'm sure if you could see the cars and people lining the streets this past week you would be amazed at all the lives you've touched and the effect you've had on a town would make you proud. I know your parents are. I wish to extend my deepest condolences to your parents and sister: may your love for one another and the support of our loving community get you through these hard times. James, I know you will make heaven a better place. When the church bells ring tomorrow, I know you will be the angel to have gotten his wings. Please know you will be sadly missed. May you forever rest in peace.

James / From: An old playground counselor 6/11/2005 - - James were my favorite Yatch Club kid, your charm and compassion made my job easy. As a 14 year old boy you would chat with me about dating and girls and I remember thinking to myself how, someday when you were older you would make some woman a very happy woman. I was right you did not fail in that domain either, you matured into a kind, loving and respectable young man. The world is somehow at a loss without you in it, but i know there is a bigger plan for you, one that is just as powerful as your electrifying smile! I'll be thinking of you at the reunion!

James, Diane, Peter & Jessica / From: Paul laflamme 6/11/2005 - - James you are sadly missed by all, you had a profound effect on everyone you touched. It is difficult to understand why things of this nature occur, there must be a grand design somewhere that explains tragic losses such as yours that only God can explain. To Peter, Diane Jessica and family, James was a credit to his community and and a positive source of inspiration to many. Speaking for the HYC, I know he will be severely missed by all, as he was the best example of what an HYC employee should be. The Club and particularly the Bar are lucky and blesed to have had James as a part of its family. Diane, Peter, Jessica and family, may God grant you the strength and courage to help you through the coming days and weeks. I am sure James' spirit will be ever present amongst you, reminding you of all the wonderful times you had together. With fondest memories and sincerest sympathies, Paul Laflamme

James / From: Stevo 6/11/2005 - - James, I loved you like my own brother, there aren't words that can describe how I feel right now. You gave us so much and took nothing, and for that I thank you. You lived life to the fullest and I know that you would want me to do the same. It doesn't even seem real yet Jimmy, I still expect your car to come down the HYC drive and for you to get out laughing and calling me a jerk or telling me about your natural highlights. You could be a bit of a pain to work with at times but I just can't imagine the HYC Bar without you bro. I know that you will always be with me every shift I work at Jimmy's. So many cherished memories with you that I don't even know where to begin. If you can see Trevor (and I'm sure you can) you would see how he is so strong. I am so proud of him and I love him so much. If we have all learnt something from this it is that life is too short, and that it is so important to tell all your loved ones how we feel about them. J Ratz, you will always remain in our hearts and in Hudson, I love you so much. One last thing before I go, those kegs better be changed when I start my shift up there. Bye for now.

Peter, Diane and Jessica / From: Darrell, Sheryl and Patrick O'Brien 6/11/2005 - - There are no words that can ease the pain and grief you are suffering, as they say, only time will make it easier. We did not know James well but he always stopped to speak to us and ask us how we were. Of course, Patrick met him through the Tresidder clan and over the many years at the Yacht Club. There is a poem that I always think of at times like this and although it can not ease your suffering perhaps it will bring some kind of peace.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: The O'Briens 6/11/2005 - - Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn's rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there.

Diane, Peter and Jessica / From: Norma and Gregg 6/11/2005 - - In memory of James, a very special person who touched thousands in such a positive way, ensuring that the boy known to his friends as "Jimmy Rats" will forever be remembered with admiration and love... To our dear friends, words fail to describe the empathy and sorrow we feel about this tragic event...a parent's worst nightmare... So we pray...that in time...we will no longer mourn James' untimely death...but always celebrate his remarkable life. Love for you and yours.

Diane, Peter and Jessica / From: The Sudbury Family, Redding CT 6/11/2005 - - Although we have been gone for almost 12 years now, our 7 years in Quebec as our 4 children were growing up are remembered with great fondness, and the friends we made will be part of us forever. Our hearts break for you; our memories of James are of a very special little boy. It is obvious that little boy grew up to be an outstanding young man who touched the lives of all he knew. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of incredible grief and sorrow.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Jessica Sudbury 6/11/2005 - - I have fond memories of James via my friendship with Jessica when we danced together in Hudson years ago. I just want to let you know that you are all at the forefront of my thoughts. Much love, ~Jes~

Ratcliffe family / From: Johanne & Ulysse Maillet 6/11/2005 - - My sincere condolences to you alll. I can remember the many times that Pat would say , I am staying at James tonite. Talked to Pat last night. He was so happy that we were able to say goodbye to James. Your son was a very special person. He will be in our thoughts forever. Keep the faith and be strong.

Diane, Peter and Jessica / From: the St-Arnaud's 6/11/2005 - - May you feel some comfort in the realization that James is resting in clear light, free of any conceptual limitation. He is your guiding light.

James / From: Ian Ellemo 6/11/2005 - - I will never forget it. His coffin was on top of the truck. There’s a reason for this James. You above it, was shining like a star and you belonged “on top”. The sight of 4 friends crying, when we barely even knew him. Red-eyed sobers at the behalf of a relentless soul that had left us. He was the type to throw out his hand first, and with a big smile on his face he would openly accept you as a person and he would say hi. I still remember the sarcasm in his voice. A type that was quite unique and made many laugh, but now the laughing has turned into tears. These tears will eventually fade but will never disappear. The accomplishment of one man is what was walking down Main road today behind the fire trucks. It’s amazing to believe that one person can affect so many others, and so deeply. The service was amazing. Even though no parents, brother, sister, or friend should be forced to go through that, everyone under those titles, I am extremely proud of. The support they showed you James, was incredible. I didn’t even know you all that well, but I Balled. Unfortunately you have been made of as an example; to truly appreciate your life, health and most importantly, family and friends. Without them, we really do have nothing. In this image consumed, money oriented society, it all comes down to us beings, in which our basic survival is based upon those who have touched our hearts. James did not die, he rather gave birth to each and everyone of us. Whether it be through something we will change about ourselves, or simply the way we remember him, James left an imprint on all our lives. We are all lucky to have such a heartwarming community. James your parents were strong, stronger than I could have imagined them to be. It’s just ironic in the sense that your heart warming soul, and your brains is where it ultimately all ended. But life can be weird like that, it is said that your biggest weakness, are your strengths, because they blind you from your actual weaknesses. The reason you passed away and hit your head the way you did was because you had so much going for you “up there” (in your cranium). Just please keep smiling and know that people will not forget about you, remembered as a strong individual who wanted nothing else than to see people happy. Thank you James.

Diane / From: Cynthia 6/11/2005 - - Dear Diane, There is nothing that prepares you to lose a child; the order is all wrong. There are many things that we just cannot know, but I do know this: that this is a journey, a journey to the essence of love. We send you and your family all our love.

james / From: jamie bolduc 6/11/2005 - - Even after today, it still doesn't make sense to me that you are gone. I dont think I have ever met anyone who had so much going for them. It seems unfair that we have to say goodbye to you so soon. However, it is also comforting knowing that every single memory I have of you is a good one. It's funny how the little things stand out so much now in my mind. Leadership gym class, playing volleyball, when you used to laugh so loudly when Nick W. got hit with the ball that we all started laughing along with you. Im sorry I hadnt gotten to see you since you'd be been back from school. I was so excited to tell you that I was going to Ottawa... in a science program, who'd have thought. You told me so, I guess. We'll miss you James, my thoughts and support go out to your family.

James / From: Kristine Zappavigna 6/11/2005 - - James, I never really got to know you that well but I deffinetly knew who you were. We worked at HYC together, you at the bar and me at the pool. Everyday I'd see you walk from the entrance to the bar and every once and a while you'd wave to me sitting up on the chair. I remember introducing myself to you and you never ever forgot my name but for some reason I never seemed to remeber yours. I feel so ashamed, I'm sorry James. Then I finally got it, I finally remebered your name. The reason why is simple, your personality hit me that night at Matt's HYC party, you stiked me as an amazing guy. And I know by all these messages that you truly were an amazing guy. Too bad I never got to know you better. My heart goes out to your friends and family.

James and Family / From: Lauren Donnelly 6/11/2005 - - James, I've known you since we were small, hanging at the playground. I remember you were always the cool older guy who was so outgoing and wild. You put a smile on everyone's face and you still do today. The number of lives you've touched is amazing, I can only hope to have the same effect on people. You are really what a person should aspire to be: you had the whole package! To Mr. and Mrs. Ratcliffe and Jess, I am so sorry for your loss. See ya later, James. Thanks for everything.

The Ratcliffe Family, his friends & Co-Workers @ H.F.D. / From: Kevin J. Redmond 6/12/2005 - - It is with great sorrow that I heard the news of Jame's passing. A life to be taken at such a young age, I guess the Lord has his reasons. God bless you, family, and all the lives of those you've touched. Kevin J. Redmond - Chicago Fire Department EMS.

James / From: Vanessa 6/12/2005 - - James, I never knew you, but you touched many people I love dearly. My heart goes out to your family and friends. May you rest in peace and in the hearts of everyone that loved you and was loved by you.

James, the Ratcliffes, his, our, Hudson friends / From: Alexandra Goth (Lex) 6/12/2005 - - Thank you. For entering my life and challenging my beliefs. For entering Janine's life and showing her how to love and be loved. For entering your parents' and sister's lives and forever making them proud. For entering your boys' lives and making them better men. For coming into this world with your beautiful smile and enriching hundreds of lives. James, in living with you this past year, I learned to love you like my brother, or brother-in-law. I will take care of them, I promise. I'll listen for your voice in the wind, to guide me along the way. My beautiful boy, take care, and I'll see you again.

the ratcliffe family and his fellow mates at hudson / From: A Paramedic 6/12/2005 - - My condolences go out to the family and to colleagues of James. May he spread his wings , fighting the fires above. He is in all our hearts, forever in spirit, never forgotten. James, rest in peace.

James/Ratcliffe Family/Friends/Fire Dept. / From: Patricia Crombie 6/12/2005 - - James: I only wish I had known you better seeing you were always very welcoming and friendly to everyone. I can say with 100% certainty that James was and still is an aspiration to every Hudson citizen. My feelings of compassion are sent out to Mr. and Mrs. Ratcliffe, Jess, James’s grandparents, close friends and the fire department.

James / From: Chelsea Fieldsend 6/12/2005 - - James, it's hard to believe that just a week ago we were working together at the YC. It was my first shift, and I know that you knew I was a little nervous, so I just want you to know that I really appreciated the encouragement and the kind words at the end of the night. I'm proud to say that I, unlike some others, have only been *fired* by you twice. You were barely a year older, but I always looked up to you, like so many people in this town did. You've set the bar for us James, and I hope that together we can make you as proud of us as we are of you. Always, Chelsea.

James / From: Cody.S 6/12/2005 - - James I never really got to know you that well which is a real shame, but the times we did hang out were always full of smiles and laughs. It was pretty easy to see why so many people looked up to you. You had so many diffrent friends, and I was thinking of all of them, and what diffrent kinds of people they were. You were the kind of person who accepted a friend for who they were, and would never try and change them. They were your friends because you liked them, and that was the only reason that was important. You focused on the good qualities of a person and not the bad ones. That's a trait few people have. I know your doing great up there, and this week made me realize more then ever that there is life after death, because a person as amazing as you, cannot just cease to exist, it's impossible. I hope we get to meet again one day.

The Ratcliffe family / From: Al Douglas 6/12/2005 - - Your son seemed to be a well liked and fun loving young man,cherish those memories forever.His volunteering as a firefighter also showed the greatest dedication. That of helping his neighbour and community. Mr and Mrs Ratcliffe the sun will eventually shine again and memories of James will make you smile maybe even have a giggle or two with the tears. Rest easy young brother. Al OSFD

The Ratcliffe Family and the Hudson Community / From: Jasmine Ellemo 6/12/2005 - - My heart has been deeply, immeasurably affected by the the tragic, sorrowful loss of such a fine young man and at the same time is filled with hope, love and compassion for his surviving family, fellow firefighters, all the wonderful, caring young people that were his friends and this beautiful community. God bless all of you. "Everyday is a gift, that why it's called the present" Rest in peace , James.

Hudson FireFighters/Ratcliffe Family / From: Chris Boulay - Yellowknife Fire Dept 6/12/2005 - - James...Rest in Peace Brother. To Hudson Fire and Ratcliffe Family our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.

James / From: Alex O. 6/12/2005 - - James, the tragic and sudden nature of your death has left me, your family and friends, and an entire community in a shocked state of greivance. Your memory and legacy will live with us always. To Peter and Diane, your son was loved, and his life will not be forgotten. No words can comfort your pain I'm sure, but to see the number of people who'se lives James has changed, must bring some measure of warmth. Rest in Peace my friend.

James / From: Steve M 6/12/2005 - - Thanks for being there James

james / From: Mowin 6/12/2005 - - What a rookie group. we were so tight and still are. you were part of making us who we are.if i hadn't have met you my life would not be the same. it was something about the way you walked into the station,head held high, wanting to axe fight that made us laugh.or shaving your legs for drinks, and then refusing the drinks when you were done. you made Mowin a brand name around the station. I have your t-shirt for you. i just wish i could have given it to you. I'll make sure you get it. this is for you bud: When i am called to duty, God Wherever flames may rage, Give me strength to save some life Whatever be its age. Help me embrace a little child Before it is too late Or save an older person from The horror of that fate. Enable me to be alert and hear the weakest shout And quickly and efficiently To put the fire out. I want to fill my calling and To give the best in me, To guard my every neighbor and Protect his property. And if i am to lose my life, Please bless with your protecting hand My children and my wife. I'll always be mowin. and you'll always be with me. Familly doesn't stop at the home front. you were my brother and i'll never forget you.

The Memory of James / From: Lesley and Madison in Jasper 6/12/2005 - - Here we are too far away, James just out of reach that much farther. Distance cannot break the effects of losing someone or the absence of a friend, it just takes a bit more time. James' death may change our physical bonds with him, but it will ultimately strengthen the bonds of friendship with all who knew him in Ottawa. We will not forget the leadership, compassion or guidance. We will not forget the sight of James just down the hall, we will not forget the love he gave so openly. We saw it all in a short while, and we saw it everyday. Let our memories of James shape and emphasize the meaning and duty within our own lives, let them touch us as we hope

The Memory of James / From: Lesley and Madison in Jasper 6/12/2005 - - Here we are too far away, James just out of reach that much farther. Distance cannot break the effects of losing someone or the absence of a friend, it just takes a bit more time. James' death may change our physical bonds with him, but it will ultimately strengthen the bonds of friendship with all who knew him in Ottawa. We will not forget the leadership, compassion or guidance. We will not forget the sight of James just down the hall, we will not forget the love he gave so openly. We saw it all in a short while, and we saw it everyday. Let our memories of James emphasize the duty and meaning in our own lives, let them touch us just as James' kindness has.

The Memory of James / From: Lesley and Madison in Jasper 6/12/2005 - - Here we are too far away, James just out of reach that much farther. Distance cannot break the effects of losing someone or the absence of a friend, it just takes a bit more time. James' death may change our physical bonds with him, but it will ultimately strengthen the bonds of friendship with all who knew him in Ottawa. We will not forget the leadership, compassion or guidance. We will not forget the sight of James just down the hall, we will not forget the love he gave so openly. We saw it all in a short while, and we saw it everyday. Let our memories of James emphasize the duty and meaning in our lives. James will live on through all of us.

James / From: Carolyn 6/12/2005 - - James... where do i start? I've known you since i was a kid because of you being such good friends with my brother. You touched the lives of many and I could see that by the large amount of people crying over you. You had everything going for you James and I have never met a nicer guy. You brought happiness into our community and the HYC will never be the same without you there. You succeeded in everything you did and that's why so many people looked up to you. I'll be seeing you one day. Rest In Peace James...

James / From: Jodi 6/12/2005 - - I didn't know you at alll James, and I dont even know if you remember me, but when i was in grade 7 i had the biggest crush on you. You knew it too, because when ur young it isnt easy to hide sumthing like that..you always used to talk to me on the walk home since we both walked and i lived 2 streets over from you just because you knew it would make my day...I want to thank you so much for just being an amazing person and for being so caring...You dont know it but you really made a diffrence in my life and i want you to know that even though we didnt talk i will miss you and ill always remember walking home next to you, even more now that you're gone...thank you again xxx

James / From: Ed 6/12/2005 - - James, I admired your never ending dedication in every challenge that you encountered during your life. I will always envy the way that you continually tried to make everyone around you a better person. As I remember my experiences with you, I remember you mostly as the "team player" on the high school basketball team, because for me, that represents the life that you led on and off the court. You were always willing to help the people around you while expecting nothing in return. And don't worry James, I'll keep up the cardio and make sure Steve does too. Love, Dave (ED)

James / From: Sarah 6/13/2005 - - Rest in peace

Jess / From: Kristi 6/13/2005 - - Big hugs. I wish I could be there. All my love from across the ocean!

Ratcliffe family / From: Anonymous 6/13/2005 - - Although I did not know James very well, he had a way of making everybody feel welcome with his friendly smiles. I was just in 7th grade when he was in 11th and he was in my homeroom.With his great character he extended his hellos to me, and everyone whenever he had the chance, he was a great man, and his legacy will live on forever.

James / From: anonymous 6/13/2005 - - I didnt know you at all, but i heard about you from others and i can tell you I heard nothing but great things. I can say without a doubt that i admire for your dedcation and I hope to some day achieve greatness as you did. May you rest in peace

James / From: Jenn C 6/13/2005 - - I can still remember going to a leadership camp for all of LSBP and James coming up to me to tell me that we were in the same group again. It was special because we would all get split up so it was nice to see James smile all day,we all know that James had a great smile. I knew him through leardership and that is what I think of him, a leader. I was a year older but I always looked up to him in a way even if no one knew, because of his integrity. I miss you very much James, I can't wait till the day I get to see that smile again . Rest in peace and know that you are in our hearts and loved forever more.

Ratcliffe Family / From: Ian (D'lo) 6/13/2005 - - When I heard you passed away I realized Peter and Diane lost a son. Jess lost a brother, Trevor,Tim,James and many more lost a best friend, The rest of us lost a great friend, The world lost unknown possiblities because you were capable of anything and everything, God bless you James, may you rest in peace

James / From: Tammy 6/13/2005 - - James, We used to be just tiny people hanging around the HYC. You were my first crush, not only because you were cute and older or because everybody loved you, but because you would smile and say hi to me. I remember when I asked you to tutor me in NYA physics. Instead of studying, we ended up spending 4 hours talking about our lives and our futures. You wouldn’t accept the money, although I begged you to take it because I knew that talking to you about life had helped more than 4 hours of physics ever could. At that point I realized how great a guy you were and how much you had to offer to every one of your friends. What I didn’t realize was that it was the first of a few dozen 4 hour conversations we were to share throughout the next 2 years. When I needed some advice from a friend, I’d head down to the HYC bar to talk to you, knowing very well that we’d probably argue about some stupid thing for the first hour, make up, and then chat for the next few. Time would fly and before we knew it, the sun would be setting on the water and we’d be preparing for a crazy night out with the HYC bar crew. I tried my best to show you the care and guidance that you had shown me. When I ran off to University, I was comforted knowing that although I was away from home, you were just a few floors away. I was proud that we were both moving towards the futures we had always talked about. If I’d had known, James, that those conversations were to be so few, I would of spent less time arguing and more time talking. Although I sometimes called you dad or acted like I didn’t want the advice, I did. You helped me become a better, stronger person. I have always looked up to you as an older brother, you were an inspiration to us all. I don’t know what any of us will do without you. I love and respect you so much and will try to find my way, comforted by the thought that you are still guiding us all. Your life was tragically cut short but your spirit and your wisdom will live on in all our hearts. Thanks for the love, the laughs, the advice, and all the good times. I will never forget you. -Love TamTam

James / From: Lise Brett Brendan and Michael Cavanagh 6/13/2005 - - May your next journey be just as beautiful. Godspeed James Godspeed

James / From: Flip 6/13/2005 - - I'm so sorry it took me so long to visit this site. It's not that i didin't want to but because i didint know if i could. But this isn't about me. I hope you can hear me when i speak to you. every word i say is true. I really do consider it an honour to have been your freind, and i want you to know, that given the opportunity, if it meant you coming back, i would take your place in a heart beat. I love you, I miss You and I'll be seeing you. Love always - Flip xoxox

The Ratcliffe Familly / From: Flip 6/13/2005 - - Though everyone is hurting right now, no one is hurting more than you, yet you are all the reason that this community has been able to cope with this the best we can. Your non stop love and affection has warmed all of our hearts and we will all be forever thankfull for that. The strength that you all have shown is, to say the least, remarkable. Thank you so much for being a constant reminder of strength, love and bravery. Here for anything you need at anytime. Love Flip

entire family / From: Isabel Rut 6/13/2005 - - We wish to extend our deepest sympathies. We share in your grief and are here for you if you need us. James is an inspiration to us all. As a parent, we all strive to acheive the level of excellence with our children that James has acheived in his short life.

James Family / From: Unknown 6/13/2005 - - I did not have the privilege in meeting you James but what I know is that you are so loved by so many and you have touched so many lives. My deepest sympathy to the Ratcliffe Family your son was a true hero.

JAMES / From: ADAM 6/13/2005 - - SINCE YOU'VE BEEN GONE I FEEL WHAT IM SURE EVERYONE ELSE HAS BEEN FEELING, KIND OF LIKE THERE IS AN EMPTY SPACE. AN EMPTY SPACE THAT I DIDN'T CHERISH ENOUGH WHILE IT WAS FULL. YOU AFFECTED THE LIVES OF SO MANY PEOPLE INCLUDING MY OWN AND I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU. I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE GREAT TIMES WE HAD TOGETHER AND LIVE MY LIFE TO ITS FULLEST IN YOUR HONOUR. WE WILL MEET AGAIN ONE DAY BROTHER, UNTIL THEN, I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US ALL LOOKING OUT FOR THE ONES YOU LOVE AS YOU DID WHEN YOU WERE HERE, ADAM

James / From: Greg Lothian 6/13/2005 - - I will never forget you James. You tought me so much in such a short time. Love you...

Peter, Diane and Jessica / From: A.M. with love 6/13/2005 - - Here are the words to this beautiful song: The Prayer- Josh Groban I pray you'll be our eyes And watch us where we go And help us to be wise In times when we don’t know Let this be our prayer As we go our way Lead us to a place Guide us with your grace To a place where we’ll be safe La luce che to dai I pray we’ll find your light Nel cuore restero And hold it in our hearts A ricordarchi che When stars go out each night L’eterna stella sei Nella mia preghiera Let this be our prayer Quanta fede c’e When shadows fill our day Lead us to a place Guide us with your grace Give us faith so we’ll be safe. Sognamo un mondo senza piu violenza Un mondo di giustizia e di speranza Ognuno dia la mano al suo vicino Simbolo di pace e di fraternita La forza che ci dai We ask that life be kind E’il desiderio che And watch us from above Ognuno trovi amore We hope each soul will find Intorno e dentro a se Another soul to love Let this be our prayer Let this be our prayer Just like every child Just like every child Needs to find a place, Guide us with your grace Give us faith so we’ll be safe E la fede che Hai acceso in noi Sento che ci salvera

Jess, Diane, and Peter / From: Monique Renaud 6/13/2005 - - Although I've never met James, this web page has allowed me to learn about a young man who was a loving, brave, and beautiful soul. He will be truly missed and forever remembered by the many people he touched in his short life. I am so deeply sorry for your great loss and please know that my thoughts are with you. Jess--I am here if you need me. Love Monique

Jim / From: Mitch, McG 6/13/2005 - - James, Thanks to you my hair line has receded half an inch and i am back to only half a tic tac trying to cope with this. I will forever be know to you as the only albino ethiopian long distance runner and the legacy lives on. Every step in Europe is for two as every step in life will be with you over my shoulder. You will always be like my little brother just now it seems I am the one looking up to you. No longer will you come to me for advice, it will be looking to you. Long live the 3 man parties and the late night cuddles and for the record, your arms are bigger than brads, argument settled. I promose to eat my tic tacs as long as you promise to hit the tred mill. Love you forever, never forget that last hug, forever looking forward to the next! Mitch

Peter, Diane and Jessica / From: Two who care 6/13/2005 - - You can shed tears when he is gone Or you can smile because he has lived You can close your eyes And pray that he'll come back Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left You can cry and close your mind be empty, turn your back Or you can do what he'd want Smile Open your eyes Love And go on.

James / From: Tia 6/13/2005 - - James, i wish i got a chance to know you better, from the day i moved to hudson many years ago i have heard nothing but great things about you, and how much of a great guy you are. even though it was the saddest day in hudson saturday it was also amazing to see all of those people out there for you, it was beautiful. you will be forever missed James. all my best to the family. Tia

The Ratcliffe family / From: Jessica Shaar 6/13/2005 - - Forever thinking of you, praying for your strength. Trust as I do, that James is in good hands until you meet again.

James / From: Scott Corcoran 6/13/2005 - - Although I only met you this past year, our whole floor became so close and such great friends. We had some really fun times and you will truly be missed. While your MSN name for quite some time was "The Coolest Man Alive," I have no doubt now that it would read "The Coolest Man Above." Farewell My Friend.

James / From: Anonymous 6/13/2005 - - James...When I found out about what happened, my heart sunk. We did not know one another really at all but what you never knew was that I always looked up to you and admired you from afar while we both went to HHS. From day one, even though you were 2 grades older than me, you were always so supportive and were always there to lend a hand or a smile to brighten someone's day. I will always remember how you were always ready and willing to help get everyone involved in livening up our school experience and boy did you do just that!! I really do believe that school spirit was nowhere near as high after you left. I want to thank you for always treating everyone you came into contact with the same; with respect and as equals. Coming from someone who knows how it can feel to be excluded from doing certain things just because they may be different, it was a great comfort to know that you were one of those people that never let my disability get in the way of the things I wanted to participate in at school. You always advocated leadership and never ceasing to reach for one's goals, whatever they may be, and that has always stayed with me. I think you made everyone’s lives just a little bit better by being that supportive and positive force in our lives at a time when things could have been confusing and a little bit scary starting highschool. You brought people together. Even from someone who did not know you that well; like me, I could tell that you were one of the very few truly good people in this world; your goodness shone through. My sincere condolences go out to your family and friends. James, you will truly be missed and remembered always.

James / From: Juliana 6/13/2005 - - James, I can honestly say your the kind of person somebody meets only once in a lifetime. I'm privileged to have known you, and will always cherish the memories I have of you. We miss you, and will never let your legacy be forgotten. Rest in Peace

James Family / From: Henry 6/13/2005 - - Im really sorry for what happened, i wish the best for him and you. yours sincerely, Henry Raywood (birch Hill)

James & familly / From: A N 6/13/2005 - - we have known each other since we were young, but we didnt, from my sister hanging out with jessica when they were kids,my parents knowing yours and us seeing each other every year at HYC or at some party in the last 2 years I dont remember ever seeing u without a smile on your face you truly were nice and sincere and this to everyone around you , taking on your fathers advice, to cherish the people around you, given recently, under the tragic event that took a wonderful man to a better place. One thing though is Im sure that the firehouse up in heaven is treating you well and you are being as much of a hero up there then you were down here. and you truly were a hero James, you truly were .Seeing everyone that you touched, was incredible, you really were a role model to many people james and i regret not taking the time to have gotten to know you better, you will always be in our thoughts, god bless you James, you really were a terrific man. Godspeed

The Ratcliffe Family/ Hudson Firefighters/Peter Milot / From: Margaret and David Clayton 6/13/2005 - - We send our very deepest sympathies on the loss of a wonderful son and comrade who was a credit to everything he touched . His life and achievements will continue to be an inspiration to young people everywhere.

Family of James and HFD / From: LaRoche Family in the states 6/13/2005 - - While we did not know James and have not met you, I know that he has touched the lives of our family there in Canada as well as here in the states. From what I have read and heard about James he was a wonderful person shall continue to touch many lives for years to come.

James / From: Nathan Sellyn 6/13/2005 - - "And even if he forever flies within the gorge, that gorge is in the mountains; so that even in his lowest swoop, the mountain eagle is still higher than other birds upon the plain, even though they soar." (Herman Melville) It takes a special person to craft such a great legacy in so little time. James, you'll always be in our hearts.

Jess / From: Katie Miskelly 6/14/2005 - - My heart is with you & your family. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. xoxoxox

Famille et collegues de James / From: Sebastien Barcelo 6/14/2005 - - Courrage et accepter mes plus sinceres sympathies pour se tristes evenement.

James / From: Joe Morris 6/14/2005 - - Thanks for the good times and the amazing memories. Hanging out with you on New Years or at Steve's house was always a blast. You and you family will be in my prayers.

Jess / From: Taryn Kentner 6/14/2005 - - Jess - I am so sorry for you and your family's loss...although I never met your bro, I can imagine how wonderful a person he must have been if he had a sister like you. I can't even imagine the pain you must be feeling right now, and I don't know if anything I can say can make it better. Just know that if there is anything at all that you need (even from Australia and Greece) you can call me anytime. That offer includes postcards and chocolate! Stay safe and we'll talk soon. TK

James / From: The Langendorfs 6/14/2005 - - We thought of you with love today but that is nothing new, we thought about you yesterday and days before that too. We think of you in silence, we often speak your name, all we have are memories and your picture in a frame.Your memory is our keepsake with which we'll never part. God has you in his keeping, we have you in our heart.

Ratcliffe Family / From: McCrudden Family 6/14/2005 - - Our sincerest sympathies for your tragic loss of your most beloved and beautiful son--our thoughts are with you.

Ratcliffe Family / From: Kristy 6/14/2005 - - My deepest sympathy to all your loved ones. May you in rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Diane, Peter & Jessica / From: The Moynihan's 6/14/2005 - - In Sympathy - May you find comfort in knowing that others share your sorrow.

James / From: Nathan - 314 Stanton 6/14/2005 - - James, I will never forget you ever buddy. I remember the first time I met you. We were heading out to watch the Canada game and you asked if it would be intrusive if you came along. Of course it would be no problem, but you were just a polite guy and right from that night everyone knew what a good guy you were. I'm gonna miss laughing my face off at your impressions of Martin or how no one else was ever more outraged when someone doubled up on the "you too". You were like the leader of 3rd floor. When it came to advice or if someone said has anyone ever done this, we could always turn to you. Remember when you said we should call someone Klitzy, boy you payed for that for a long time. Miss ya buddy, see ya when I get there.

James and Family / From: Robert Steinhaeusser Firefighter 09 Rigaud 6/14/2005 - - On the evening of your death I was on standby in Hudson at the Fire dept. until 3:00am. I as well spend the night prior to the funeral and the entire day in Hudson. I WAS IMPRESSED. You have done more for your community than some people do in the whole life. The only words coming to my mind were "The best die young". God bless you.

The Ratcliffe family and Hudson Fire Dept. / From: Parents of a firefighter 6/15/2005 - - No words can express the heartfelt sorrow we feel for your family and the Hudson firefighters. James was an exceptional young man. It's never easy to say good-bye to someone who is so dear to you. We are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With deepest sympathy. Wayne & Barbara Partridge

The Ratcliffe family & Hudson Fire Department / From: Sara Partridge & Steven Lacroix 6/15/2005 - - We would like to express our deepest sympathy on your tragic loss. With the love and support of family and friends, we hope it will help to ease the deep heartfelt sorrow you are experiencing today and for the days to come. Our hearts and thoughts are with you at this sad time. To the Hudson firefighters, we are sorry for your loss, are thoughts and prayers are with you. Just know that your fallen brother James will always be watching over you.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Jenn Wright 6/15/2005 - - Last weekend was the last time I was able to spend with James and because the HYC bar was still in pre-season, James and I found many quiet moments where we were able to sit down and catch up. On Monday, I walked into the bar completely upside down. I joked with him about how much paperwork was strewn around and even though he was MY boss, I made him sit with me as we went through it together. At lunch, he must have heard my stomach growl because, without hesitation, he was off to pick up subs for the two of us. I remember watching him eat from across the table and thinking of how happy he looked. In between bites he mentioned that Jess was in town and how he was looking forward to spending some time with her. I teased him when he left as his pager went off for a call that ended up being a ''false alarm.'' The last vision I have of James is his bright smile and the huge wave goodbye he gave me before leaving for the much anticipated family dinner he was about to eat while I finished up. While most people my age drag their feet to work, I looked forward to it because I knew how entertaining it was working alongside him. Thank you for raising a wonderful son and an even better friend. He will be missed. To Mr. and Mrs. Ratcliffe, ''There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children; one of these is roots, the other is wings.'' With both of you together, he earned both.

Jess and Family / From: Emily Stewart 6/15/2005 - - My thoughts and prayers are with you

James family and friends / From: Valentina 6/15/2005 - - I was shocked and saddened to hear of your loss and I am having trouble finding words to express my deepest sympathies to all of you. Reading what people have shared about James comforts me in knowing that he lived an incredible life, touching many and achieving so much. Thank you James for being a great inspiration to so many, and my thoughts are with your friends and family. Love, Valentina

James Ratcliffe / From: Anonymous 6/15/2005 - - Dear James, I never had the pleasure of getting to know you. I have to confess I didn't even know who you were until this tradgedy happend on June 6th. But I did however know several people that knew you only by face and those that knew you very well. Both these types of people have told me the same thing, what an amazing person you were and how big of a loss your life really was. Its so sad and confusing to see someone as wonderful as you leave us. Scrolling through you pictures I can tell you were someone that had so much grace, in every picture you caught my eye first. And to make a complete stranger feel pain and sorrow over your death is a sign of what a remarkable person you really were. To the family of James, you have my most sincere condolences. They say that time heals all wounds. But its also true that they leave scars. Wishing the best upon you during this difficult time.

James family & friends / From: Pierre & Agnes Jutras 6/15/2005 - - As their maternal grandparents, we share the grief of Dru, Evan and Cole Langendorf in the light of their friend James' accidental death. Our prayers and love are extended to you and yours.

The Ratcliffe family / From: The Sale family, New Hampshire (formerly of St. Lazare) 6/15/2005 - - The words of the eulogy to your son will remain in our hearts forever. Our sincerest sympathies.

Jame's family & friends / From: NB firefighter 6/15/2005 - - My deepest sympathys are extended to you.

James, Family, Brothers / From: FF P. Jérôme Medicine Hat Fire Dept 6/15/2005 - - My deepest sympathy in these hard times to family and friends. Rest In Peace Brother.....

James Peter Ratcliffe / From: Carolyn Colfer 6/15/2005 - - James, It has taken me sometime to be able to sit down and write this, partially because I can’t/won’t accept what has happened and partially because I have so much to say to you, so many thank you’s that I don’t know where to begin. I have know you James, literally since we were in diapers and have spent just as many years looking up to you with the utmost admiration. Since we were young you have always tried to guide me in the rite direction. Weather it be to hold my hand because I was afraid of the dark when we were 6 years old trick or treating , or the time that I know Geoff’s tooth out and although we were frantic 12 year olds you told me to hold it together and helped me get him back into the boat. We went off to our first year of university together and I couldn’t have asked for any one better to come with me. Just as when we were younger you took my hand and tried to show me the way, we were inseparable for the first month and then as usual with our friendship you began to shine and watch in total awe. Yet, every time I was discouraged you dropped all of what you were doing and came to talk to me and inspire me to stay in school.. James you gave me the confidence to be me, taught me to accept myself for who I am and that I want to thank you for. I want to thank you James for the countless times you showed me how to be a better person, but mostly James I want to thank you for letting me be a part of your life. This isn’t an hour that has gone by in the past week that you have crossed my mind, I know your in a good place James , I just wish it wasn’t so soon. There are so many things I wish I would have said to you, so many things you deserved to hear. I wont say Goodbye to you James, because I don’t know how…rather until our paths meet again, know that I’ll be missing you everyday and that I have never been so very proud to call someone my friend. I love you Jimmy….My prayers are with you…..-Always: Care xoxo

Family & Friends of James / From: Brough, former resident of St. Lazare 6/15/2005 - - I think that everyone in hudson highschool knew of James, even though I was in a grade above him, some of my close friends have been touched by your son/brother/colleague and friend James. I know more than anyone about the reality that this life is but a short walk in the park in the greater scheme of infinity. James is no doubt keeping very busy trying to bring his family and close loved ones signs to validate his continuation of survival in the afterlife. Look for him in your dreams, and ask for him to give you signs to show you he's there. I'm sure he'll be ringing your phone and although you pick up and no one is there- know he's the one who is calling. Great spirits do impact electronics. Although his life was short, he clearly made profound impacts on so many people and I for one wont waist another minute yelling at mom because my room is messy or feeling lazy and geeky just because I'm stuck inside on a Friday night. Prayers for you. God bless and love you.

James / From: unominous 6/15/2005 - - Even though i may not have known you i know you were a great person and that you touched alot of peoples hearts. rest in peace

Ratcliffe family / From: Marlene Donegan 6/15/2005 - - I lost my son almost two years ago at age 32 so I have walked your walk. Losing a child is something we never get over but we do learn from their death. Scott's death has put me on a new path of helping those who have lost loved ones so if I can be of any help now or months down the road, please do not hesitate to contact me.

james / From: vicki 6/15/2005 - - I remember the first day of school for me at HHS I was just this french little girl with no friend but still always talked to me kindly you were my first high school crush and I will always remember you as a great guy....rest in peace

Ratcliffe Family / From: Brieanne White 6/16/2005 - - Once upon a time there was this prince o.k James, firefighter who was always out protecting his family, friends and those he did not even know. As a youngster it is funny that even at bed time stories James was the firefighter or young hero that would save every one from their daily pain and troubles. James, the last time I saw you was last summer when I was expecting my first baby and your words to me where make sure that you tell your baby good bed time stories like we used to do. Of course taken back that you even remembered those days, I said you bet and then went on to the bbq not knowing that I would not have another chance to talk to you. James your life has had such an impact on your family, friends and community and those who have not had the opportunity to cross paths with you, it is truly amazing. Rest in peace James, your fairy tale has come true. Diane, Peter and Jess my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time as you remember your wonderful son and brother, words can never express the loss that you are feeling at this time, take comfort in those who loved James and those who love you.

James / From: Bobby 6/16/2005 - - Rest in peace James...

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Julie J 6/16/2005 - - Jess and family, my thoughts are with all of you and will be for a long time. I am happy that there are obviously so many wonderful memories for you to share and remember fondly. It is never quite understandable when a life is taken so young, but I pray that you will be able to heal and be together in your love for each other.

diane and peter / From: amanda doran/boudreau 6/16/2005 - - When I heard that a firefighter had been in an accident my heart sank. All I could think of was that someone had lost their baby. I did not have a name at that time, but knew that any of these young men were good people, that they had dedicated themselves to helping others and that things like this shouldn't happen. I only remember James from when we were neighbors and I could hear his basketball bouncing on the driveway, or when he would pass in front of our house with Jess while they were walking Jake. My heart goes out to you, and I have shed many a tear for you. The articles in the paper are a beautiful tribute to James and this web site shows just how much he touched people's lives. You must be very proud of him. My thoughts are with you and your family. May his spirit keep you strong.

James / From: Tina 6/16/2005 - - James, words can't describe how sad it is to have you slip away from us. I cherish all the times I was priveledged enough to spend with you. I could go on and on recounting my memories, but I'll keep it short. I think you know how much you have taught myself and everyone else. It is only through your passing that has taught me to try to grab on to the dear friendships that I have lost touch with, and I'm sorry I didn't realize that before with you. Rest in peace my friend. I love you and I know I will be seeing you.

Diane, Peter & Jessica / From: Diane, Alan, Gillian, James, Andrew & Natalie Davis 6/16/2005 - - Our whole family is hurting over James' death. Each of us knew James through different activities (first friendship, school bus to Harwood, HHS sports teams, driver for teams, leadership,variety show, golf at Harwood, IGA, HYC etc.) but his death has truly had a universal impact. There is a deep pain within us at his untimely leaving. James was a very special person and watching him grow up has been a gift in itself. Peter, your eulogy was an incredbile example of the power and beauty of family love. Thank-you for sharing with us the values that you and your family have upheld. It is obvious that James is very much a product of a caring and loving family environment. Thank-you Diane, Peter & Jessica for giving us and our community such a wonderful young man and role model. James will never be forgotten.

My Brother, Peter Sister in Law, Diane and Niece, Jessica / From: Cathy, Sister, Sister in Law and Aunt to Jessica and James 6/16/2005 - - My heart aches along with you as we have had to say good bye to a wonderful part of our family. He will remain in my heart and thoughts always. I have always been proud of him and all his wonderful achievements. I can only imagine now what other wonderful things he would have been able to accomplish if his life had been longer for he did more in his 20 years than most do in their entire lives. I will love you for always, James and miss you too.

James Family, Friends and Hudson Fire / From: Shaun Brandon- Saugeen Shores Fire/ Bruce Power Emergency Response 6/16/2005 - - My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time. May your love for one another and for James help you through this terrible time.

James Peter Jessica and Diane / From: Reid Wiggins 6/16/2005 - - what can you say about someone you've seen grow into an amazing person. an exemplary humna being. because words will just not suffice. i remember him waltzing over to where trevor and i would be playing and he would just stand there watching us with innocence in his eyes. but his innocence radiated a love for life that i could never understand. my childhood would not have been the same had i never met james. i feel blessed. jessica...although i haven't seen you in years my deepest sympathy goes out to you...i could never have dealt with the loss of a sibling with as much strength...courage and poise. i know that james would be proud of you. diane and peter you two are amazing people...i always loved those cheese cookies that you made more often than not i'd find myself at the cassidy's hoping james would invite trevor and i over for some of them...but beyond the cookies i appreciate you both for being so loving because james was a reflection of his inspiration and i am positive that his inspiration was found in the love that he got from you both.... james..."if you were with us tonight...we'd sing for you just one more time...a song for a heart so big...God wouldn't let it live...may angels lead you...hear you me my friend...on sleepless roads the sleepless go...may angels lead you in..." i love you bro... reid.

James / From: Janine/Munchkin 6/16/2005 - - I've been on this website like 6 times a day since it was created, but I haven't been able to write anything. I still don't know if this will make sense, but I'm going to try. Now that I haven't talked to you for a week and a half, I think it's starting to hit me that you really are gone. I know that I didn't know you for as long as many of the other people who have been hurt by you leaving us, but i still feel so lost. Yesterday would have been our eight months, it was such a hard day. My life finally made sense the past nine months having you in my life. Now that you're gone I just feel so confused. The sadness of missing you is an ache that won't go away. I'm worried that people are going to forget you. I'm worried that I'm going to forget you. i know i wont, im just so sad, angry, hurt...i just want you back. I feel like I wasn't done with you yet, there was still more to say, feel, learn... I'm trying to make you proud. I'm trying my best...it's just that when I picture you, how happy you were, how amazing you were...i just am overcome with this sadness that overwhelms me. You'd be so incredibly proud of your friends and family. You'd talked about so much about many of them that when I finally met them last week I felt like I already knew them. Everybody has pulled together to support eachother, its amazing. Your Dad, Mom and Jess are being so strong, I can't even believe it. When I finally went to the fire department & the yacht club, I was amazed at how much everybody was trying to honour you. It's obvious how the guys on the department have honoured you with the service, the barbeque, the decals, the ribbons, the board outside...steve & jenn are working so hard to try to keep everything going the way you left it...they have your top & nametag above the bar...just how everyone remembers you. And you know what? Spending the last week in Hudson, the town you loved so much, with your incredible family, your boys who you thought were the best friends in the whole world, being with the guys on the department that you loved so much, and going to the yacht club where you'd worked so hard for so long...I finally got it. Everything made sense. I finally understand how you could love so many things so much. I finally understand everything about you- everything that mattered to you, how dedicated you always were to everything. I just can't get your smile out of my head. I remember how much fun we had the last time we were together, and how you once again had to tell me how bad of a driver I am. You called me so many times on monday, you were being so cute. I haven't heard you that happy in a while. I've been having these flash memories of everything. I remember you saying to me that it felt like we were dating much longer than we actually had been since we saw eachother all day, every day. I've been thinking of the silly nicknames, the inside jokes, the life plans, the dreams, the sad times, the happy times, the stressful times. You got me through so much. I am forever grateful to you for showing me unconditional love, and what real happiness feels like. I miss it so much. I miss you so much. I can't wait for the day that we will be together again and we can go on in another life together, hopefully for a longer time. Please be there when your Dad finally needs to cry, please be there when your Mom thinks of the day she gave birth to you, please be there when Jess dates a new guy and doesn't have you there to judge him, please be there when it finally hits Trev that you're gone, please be there when Tim doesn't have you to yell at for sucking at Halo, please be there when Steve and Jenn are lost at the Bar and need you to whip them into shape, please be there when Jimbo thinks he can give something less than 100% and remind him that he can succeed, please be there when Pat, Geoff, Rob, Adam, and all of the other boys go through something they would usually go to you for advice about. Please be there when the Hudson fire fighters go into their first burning building, have their first practice, or first beer with just the department without you, and let them know you are there. When Brad's a huge, cocky, professional football player, please still be his pool boy making a ridiculous amount of money. Please be with everyone from Ottawa on the first day of classes, especially Mark and Justin living without you. Please be with your grandparents, Evy, Greg, and the rest of your family when they think of what a cute little boy you were. Please be with Alice, Charlotte and Joe when they grow up without you there as a role model. And anyone else i forgot...im sure i forgot plenty due to the amazing number of people who loved you so much, just please be there for them when they need you. If its not too much to ask, please be there for me when I miss you. I'll love you forever & always, I miss you with all my heart, I can't wait to see your smile shining at me when I get up there. I love you.

Jess and Family / From: Lauren Costescu 6/16/2005 - - I'm so sorry for your loss Jess. From what I've read it seems like James was a wonderful guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: 12-16AAF Soccer 6/16/2005 - - Standing outside the church on that hot day, watching the crowd mount, all coming out to show their respect, I thought to myself what an incredible young man James must have been. We did'nt know him personally but went in respect for his family, friends and the Hudson Fire Dept. I wondered to myself why he was different in a special kind of way and so very much respected amongst his peers. Looking around, I saw in front of me a pine tree, on that pine tree were hundreds of maple tree seeds. You know, the helicopter kind. I could see on the other pine, the same amount of seeds. I pondered how odd, but as I turned around I saw a huge maple tree standing alone amongst the pine. I thought this big maple left several seeds to be planted so that its life would continue, and concluded in that split moment that James has done the same for many as well. His seed has been planted in many hearts. Included is ours. Blessings, U12AA and U16AA Female soccer teams

Peter and Diane / From: Fred & Sylvie Bush 6/17/2005 - - Diane and Peter, we were so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. We can all only take heart in the life that James lived however short and in the love that so clearly touched everyone. I can image how it must have been to be out in heavy weather, embracing the elements with a noble purpose in mind. That is life! All our love, Fred & Sylvie Bush

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Josh Hanek 6/17/2005 - - I'm Trevor's cousin and I had the chance to meet James a couple of times. I feel honored to have met such a great person. James was a very good friend of Trevor's and I have never seen such a strong bond of friendship between two people in my life. This made me realize how important it is to have friends in your life and that you have to cherish that bond for as long as you can. James, it was great knowing you. Rest in peace. My deepest sympathies.

Peter and Those wh loved James best / From: Frances Brotherhood 6/17/2005 - - Dear Peter, While we haven't met for many years I was saddened to hear that Jmaes had died. Walter and Georgie have kept me up to date with your lives and I feel as if I know you well. God Bl;ess you as you grieve the loss of this precious person. Frances (Georgie's sister)

Familly/friends, and brother of hudson fire dept. / From: David, LFD, and PWFD 6/17/2005 - - J,ai jamais eu la chance de connaitre james, mais j'ai connu et travaillé avec les pompiers de Hudson quelques années auparavant. MEs plus scincere condoléances, les mots ne peuvent soulagé la tristesse et la peine de tes confreres, et de ta familles. tu as donné ta vie pour ta comunauté, pour ce que tu aimais. Tu es un homme d'honneur. repose en paix. Hudson, j'ai été sous le choc d'apprendre la mort d'un des votres, et j'ai encore de la misere a le croire. mes plus scincere condoléance... Rest in Peace Brother,

The friend I should have made... / From: James Tchamourian 6/17/2005 - - I don't know how many times I had seen you around; at parties, at the chat, Abbott. I'd walk right by you sometimes and tell myself, "You'll see him at the chat", or "You don't have time to make small talk"...We would talk, we would laugh, share a beer together, but when I think of all of those times I would walk right by you, my heart breaks. You and I have a lot in common, and evidently right down to the nickname our girlfriend has. To Peter and Diane Ratcliffe, I think I speak for the entire town when I say thank you. It's obvious that the qualities and characteristics that James showed and his ability to touch so many people is just a reflection of his upbringing and the values you instilled on him. You have an incredible sense of family, one that you have been able to share with the entire community. Your son did change the world, he changed our world. He changed my world. I just wish I had a chance to shake his hand one more time. I wish he was there at my next party or the next time I went to the chat. I know I won't see him, but he will be there. He'll be there in every laugh, he'll be there in every cry. He'll be watching us and guiding us until the end of our days. James, you are the most decent human being I have ever had the privilege of knowing. If my son grows up to be half the man you were, I'd be the luckiest father alive. I know someday, we will have that beer, or that conversation we never, in a pub along the shores of paradise. May God carry you to his side and give your friends and family the strength they need to honor your memory and not to mourn your loss. Until then, my brother, save me a cold one...

Family and Friends / From: Jeff Hutchins 6/18/2005 - - Unfortunetly I didn't know James, but I do remember passing him in the halls of HHS on a daily basis. The last memory I have of James was when I visited Hudson last summer and me, Ben, Steve, and his brother Trevor were walking along main road to the HYC. I only got to spend maybe 20 mins alongside him while the boys exchanged stories on the walk over, but it was enough time for me to see how cool of a guy he was and how it would have been a privilege to have been one of his friends. Rest in Peace...........

Diane and family / From: Shirley Charron, colleague JAC-R.E. 6/18/2005 - - Dearest Diane and family, My heart goes out to you at this most difficult time. I'm sure he will look over you and will want you to continue his good work. And most of all to find peace and happiness again. //Shirley

The Ratcliffes / From: Tim Tolton 6/19/2005 - - I only met James a few times and never had the pleasure of getting to know him. But I knew him by reputation and by the glowing way that Phil talked about him. And then I knew him better when Phil called me in tears late that Monday night and better still as the week went on and ended with his funeral. To see how a young man of 20 can touch an entire town was something very special. As a father I can only imagine your pain. I wake up at night and wonder how you're doing. I say a little prayer for you every day and hope that all these tributes can help in some small way. Regarding loss, Ernest Hemingway said: The world breaks everyone sooner or later, but then some grow strong in the broken places.

James / From: Kathryn P 6/19/2005 - - James you have accomplished more in your twenty years of life than some people have that are twice your age. Every where that I go and everyone that I talk to have been touched by you in some way and are missing you very much. It has been hard for everyone but I know that you wouldn't want us all to be hurting forever, I will never forget you. God bless you, I know that you are in a better place. xoxo Kat

James / From: Jenna F 6/19/2005 - - I did not know you , but you were a brave, courageous man. You will never be forgotten, you will stay in everyones heart forever. Much love for his family and friends. Sincerely, Jenna Foster

The Ratcliffe Family & Friends / From: Elizabeth 6/19/2005 - - The news of James's tragic death reached me in Scotland early Tuesday morning via e-mail and since then not a day has gone by that you have not been in my thoughts or a night that you have not been in my prayers. James seems to have touched so many people in his short life and I just wanted to send my sympathy.

James & Family / From: Carl Poirier 6/19/2005 - - James, I will never forget you.... You are an incredible man and a great Firefighter, you'll be greatly missed around the fire house. NO GOOD BYES JUST FOND MEMORIES !! I'll always love you and miss you " I will continue to better myself " - Peter,Diane,Jess = My thoughts and prayers are with you and don't hesitate to contact me for anything. Don't be strangers around the fire house, our doors are always opened to family and friends. God bless you James... Rest in Peace brother. ** I LOVE YOU MAN ** ALWAYS - CARL

James and family / From: A brother for a short while, a brother forever...(Adam Corfe) 6/19/2005 - - James, our time spent together if only for a short while will be remembered forever. I have not the words to express the sadness and emptyness I feel. But know that you will live on in all of us with honour, courage and most importantly love. You will be missed and always remembered. Training together at HFD was the best time in my life and Im proud to have trained with you my brother. There is no one I would have rather spent the time with or trusted more...Good Bye my friend... Rest In Peace, we will meet again... My deepest sympathy to your family and our brothers and sisters at the Hudson Fire Department. My heart is with all of you... Adam Corfe

James / From: Stephie 6/20/2005 - - James, you were always the glue that held our rookie group together. Even though you were the "baby" of our group, I knew that if I was with you, you would always get me though the tunnel at serch and rescue, or you would would always be able to find our way out. I will always remeber our first fire together at Woodcroft, and us together at the gym trying to figure out what "flamme apparent" really means on the pagers! James, you were such an inspiration to us all, and I am still half expecting to see you pull up at the station and want to have an axe fight. I knew that you would have had a chuckle to know that we were protecting you with chrome axes... I will miss you, James, and life around HFD will never be the same again. I love you buddy. And I know that you will be protecting us. God Bless you James. Thank you for inspiring me., xoxo

James / From: Kevin M. Laverdiere 6/20/2005 - - James, you made everyday count, may you go rest high on that mountain.

Jessica / From: Dr. Lacroix 6/20/2005 - - Deepest regrets for your loss. All of us at the University offer you any support that we can.

Peter, DIane and Jessica / From: Stephen Dyczko, Texas 6/20/2005 - - Hello Peter, Diane and Jessica. I am numb. I do not know how it is to lose a son. I have some idea from just living life and growing older, but I can only imagine the process that you and your family are experiencing. My Mother sends her warmth to you, as do I and my other friends. I am unable to make the words appear here that could make any sense out of your loss. However, I do know that in our lives there is a basic truth that says something like this...Very good people get into harms-way because of the nature of what they do in order to help the people around them. This is your son's legacy. I am thinking of you Peter and I will keep your family in my prayers. Thank you for sharing this with me. Your friends down here in Texas, Stephen.

Family / From: F.F. Justin Canestraro 6/21/2005 - - Dear Ratcliffe family, my name is Justin Canestraro I am friends with James' girlfriends sister. I'm a Firefighter in the city of Owen Sound. I never met James but he was part of my family, we are brothers. Anytime a Firefighter is lost, a member of our family is lost. I'm sure you already know that your son is a hero and as a hero he should not be mourned but celebrated. He past away making a difference in his community and for that there will be a special place for him in heaven. All his family and friends should feel lucky to have a such an angel looking over them. From myself and every member of the Owen Sound Fire Department, we will honor him everyday in what we do and how we carry ourselves, that is how a Fire Fighter wouold like to be remembered. Your son , my brother, will always be in our hearts and thoughts, I hope he will watch over me when I encounter danger. For raising a son the way you did, A HERO, we thank-you.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Diane Denby 6/21/2005 - - I'm a friend of James' girlfriend, Janine, and though I never met you James, I feel like I know you. Janine spoke highly of you a week before the accident and you truly can make her smile. She went on and on about evrything you were involved in and how amazing your family is and how she was blessed to be apart of your life. When I heard of the accident I was just as confused as everyone else and I must say Janine has wonderful friends and family too and we'll be there for her-dont worry! Sincerely, Diane Denby-a friend of the Denis family

Peter, Diane & Jessica / From: Shawna & Stephen Lock 6/21/2005 - - Beautiful eulogy. Wish we could have been there. Words cannot say what you all have lost and a few moments shaking hands cannot make up for years of growing up & living life. Our lives constantly revolve around our children because we always want the best for them. We do cherish every moment we spend with our children, from coaching both soccer teams, twice a week, to spending week-ends up north fishing or building sand castles on the beach. It is clear that James was brought up in a happy environment and, in return, he has brough much happiness to others around him. We will be making a donation to the Hudson Firefighters (James Ratcliffe fund) in lieu of flowers. We do make it out to Hudson evry now and then and hope to be able to stop by to say hello, under less emotional and busy circustances. Our hearts go out you you all. Shawna & Stephen.

James / From: JF Girodo 6/23/2005 - - Hi, I never met you nor did I know you. My uncle tought you in University. He was you psychology teacher. Rest In Peace. Mes sympathies pour les amis, amies et toutes la famille de James Ratcliffe.

James family&Hudson F.D. / From: Victoriaville F.D./911 6/25/2005 - - On behalf of the Victoriaville Fire Department, I would like to express our deepest sympathy to James' family, our fellow firefighters Hudson F.D., and friends. Rest in peace James.

James / From: Rob Crawford 6/25/2005 - - Hey James. I never met you, but I did know you through my brother, DJ Crawford. He spoke well of you and I cant blame him. I am deeply sad about your loss but you will not be forgotten. Rest in peace James.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: Kyrke Nussey & Denise Castonguay 6/25/2005 - - Denise and I never knew James personally but, since his tragic accident, we have come to feel, at least in some small way, a bond with the fine young man that you, as loving, dedicated, parents helped, in a most significant way, to mold. At his funeral, his sister and close friends spoke of their deep love and respect for James, giving us an insight into the wonderful guy 'with the great hair'. But, it was you, Mr. Ratcliffe, that caused the large crowd to stand as one and applaud when you gave valued insights into how we could better our relationships with our own loved ones. When you rose to say what, most assuredly, were the most painful words you have ever had to utter during the course of your lifetime, you gave a sermon of hope rather than one of despair. For you spoke from the heart, albeit a broken one. You talked of the special bond that you and your familly had with one another. Would that all families could function such as yours: one that loves unconditionally, one that never lets a disagreement go unsettled, and one that always respects each other's point of view in the process. Every parent knows from day one that their worst fear in life is the thought of losing one of their beloved children. It goes against every law of Nature that a child should predecease his parents and yet, sometimes, life throws us a curve and we have no choice but to try and deal with it as best we can. One thing is certain: our lives are changed forevermore!. I don't know whether you, as a family, believe that some 'special' people are 'sent' to us for a particular reason but we believe that James was put on this good earth to show us that by loving others unconditionally and selflessly offering compassion and support to fellow human beings, we could make the world a better place to live in. What an great blueprint for llife we should all aspire to. Words of comfort such as these can help in the initial stages of grief but it willl take a very long time, as I am sure you well know, for this wound to even begin to heal. As you, Mr. Ratcliffe have said, some days, coping will be easier, on others, the wound will fester and the pain will be great. LIve lilfe one minute at a time if that's what it takes. There are no rules here. The strong bond you HAVE with this wonderful young man will never break. Always remember that, although his time on earth was far too short, your son aspired to be the best person he could be, all the while bringing joy and happiness to so many. Could a parent ask for more? When James' bright light went out, the world lost 'one of the good ones.' In closing, I would ask that please accept our most sincere condolences in the tragic loss of your dear James.. Take good care of yourselves. He would want you to!

Jimmy the Rat / From: Tim Thomas 6/25/2005 - - James was the kind of friend that eveyone needed. I first remember meeting him in advanced French class in grade 7. We were a tight class because we remained together all throughout high school. James was the kid that everyone envied, and talked to when they needed help with their homework. He and I only became very close friends in grade 11, we sat together in economics class, began hanging out and most importantly, partying together. A moment that sticks in my mind was when we first heard of what had happened in New York on September 11th . Hudson high had just installed TV’s in every classroom, so when the teachers heard news of the events we turned on the TV’s and watched. After lunch that day, James and I met up for economics class with Mr. Havard, where we continued to watch some of the news coverage and had a discussion about what had just taken place. I can vividly remember him wanting to do something to help, and feeling very emotional for all the firefighters that had lost their lives. I think it was at that point that James considered joining up with the volunteer department of Hudson. In the years since then James and I spend more and more time together. I think at one point last summer people were beginning to wonder. I have a fond memory of James, which occurred last summer on a trip to wasaga beach Ontario. Wasaga is this little party town where thousands of kids descend upon every year to celebrate the end of a great summer. As some of you may not know, James was a fairly hairy chested young man and after the second day their, he came out of the bathroom and asked me and the guys if he should shave his chest, because the ladies liked it better that way. We agreed and so he turned and went back into this miniature bathroom in our cabin, which was the size of a small shed. After about a half hour we began to get worried so we knocked on the door and finally he came out with his shirt on and looked directly at us and said Boys I think I’ve made a huge mistake, and for the rest of the trip he never took of his shirt again, even when we went swimming. Now that James’ life has ended, I ask all of you who learned from his exceptional 20 years, to live on with his legacy in our hearts. Jimbo were all going to miss you very much, and rest in peace brother

Peter / From: Pablo Velasco 6/26/2005 - - Peter, you left me speechless over lunch on Friday when you told me that the young Hudson fire fighter we all heard about on the news was your son. What you must be going through is beyond anyone’s comprehension and we are truly sorry for your loss. I read your eulogy with my three teenage boys and we’re inspired as you suggested living each day as if it may be our last. By all accounts James was a very special individual and you must all be very proud of the impact he continues to have on so many.

James / From: Anthony Zambon 6/26/2005 - - James, I have been to visit this site several times, but it took me this long to finally write something in the Guestbook rather than just read and look back upon all the great times we shared. I'm not sure what to feel when I visit this site because what happened seems so surreal, I feel an empty spot and it won't go away. James you were truly a remarkable person with endless oppurtunities and I wouldn't put anything past you because your drive and ambition for success were more powerful than your drive to do otherwise. James you were a scholar, hard-worker and gentleman, but more so you were a friend, a good one at that. Those who were privilged enough knew you very well, I was priviliged enough to know you well and for a long time. It did not take a rocket scientist nor a long period of time to figure out who James was and what he stood for.But, if it did take a scientist James definately could have figured the formula. James you made everyone look bad at school and everyone knew it.(But we will keep your basketball shot a secret between the boys.) James you were courageous, loyal, trustworthy and respectful man and I will miss you so much. You influenced lives in ways you can't imagine and you will continue to do so forever. Jim, I love you brother, I will never forget you, God Bless You James, Rest in Peace.

Hudson / From: Peter, Diane and Jessica Ratcliffe 6/27/2005 - - Letter of Personal Thanks The response by our friends as well as the entire community of Hudson to the tragic accidental death of James Ratcliffe, on June 6, 2005, has been truly overwhelming. By this letter we would like to extend our sincerest personal thank-you to each and every person, family and organization that has reached out to help our family since that time. The overwhelming and unending flow of kind thoughts, loving words, cards, flowers, gifts, food and kind selfless acts has allowed us more freedom and the luxury of time to begin slowly coming to grips with the brutal reality of our sudden loss. The tremendous effort and organization the Town of Hudson provided for the Civic Funeral for our fallen hero was an honour and comfort to all of us. We thank St. Thomas Church and Father Demers, for the use of their church as well as Rev. Kent Chown of Wyman for co-leading the service. We thank the Hudson Yacht Club who opened their grounds and also all the Town of Hudson and the organizations and individuals that provided food, drink and volunteers for the reception following provided a special comfort and place to gather afterwards. A very special thank-you goes to the member of HYC who provided, on such short notice while refusing compensation, the luxury coach and driver for our family and friends. We are thankful for the help and support from the City of Montreal Fire Department, as well as the Canadian Fallen Firefighters Foundation, and all the other firefighters and medical units who provided exceptional people, trucks and help of all kinds on a tremendously hot day. A very special thanks goes to Chief Milot and the fine men and women of the Hudson Volunteer Firefighters. They inspired, worked and trained alongside James, helping him to be more of the man he wanted to become and fulfill his dreams. These fine firefighters stood by James in life and death, doing duty they had never imagined with honour. The firefighters now stand by our family and community having earned respect, honour and dignity beyond their young years. We hope and pray that they are each able to find peace and comfort enough to continue their selfless service to Hudson. We would also like to take time to thank the many friends, parents, teachers and anyone who was James’ friend in his short life. You have all contributed to who James was and what he aspired to be and the fine young man he became. While James lived too few years, the life he found here in Hudson was full of love, laughter, learning, opportunity and fun that made each moment happy and special. In hindsight James lived much more than most, much happier than most and will be missed by many more than most, which might be one definition of a truly successful life well spent. We knew James was a special man; it is uplifting to see so many others who agreed with us and share our loss. We grieve as a family within a special community that also grieves deeply, so we have never felt alone or abandoned in our times of confusion and despair. While our family begins our journey on a lifetime quest to seek healing that will never complete, once again Hudson has shown itself to be a truly special place to live and raise a family. We are not surprised, we chose carefully when we moved here to raise our family and have had a long and deep respect for the community of Hudson. We have been amazed not just by the love that poured to us from Hudson, but the openness with which so many people loved and truly respected our son and brother James. While we can now only touch James in our hearts, minds and memories, the outpouring of compassionate love and fond memories of the community for James have filled our hearts with additional pride and shared love for our only son. This sharing makes our burden lighter to bear. Thank you all for helping to lighten the immense sadness and loss we must bear. With all of our love and respect, Peter, Diane and Jessica Ratcliffe

The Ratcliffe Famiy (Jessica) / From: Deanna Rooke 6/30/2005 - - My heart goes out to you. James was a good man and we will all miss him. I wish i could have been there for you Jessica. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Mr & Mrs Ratcliffe / From: Jacquie and Cathy 6/30/2005 - - May God bless each of you . This has had a profound effect on both of us. You had a very special son that touched thousands in such a short time. His goodness will live through all the people he touched. The angels now have amoung them a hero.......

Peter & Diane & Jessica / From: Linda McPhee(Zambon) 7/2/2005 - - The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched...but are felt in the heart. May you find comfort in your cherished memories.

James / From: Candice 7/4/2005 - - How does life go on? Everyday is a challenge, but I try to live strong for you. In my weak moments, I remember your laugh, and how we laughed often. I thought our friendship would carry on as it always had. We drove each other nuts, and at the same time we helped one another pick up our pieces when we fell. I know if you were here, you would snuff out every regret I have when it comes to you. The truth is, I have several. I was being me, you were being you, and we both thought that we had all the time in the world to play our silly games. In this time of grief, I have found the optimist in me. Something I bet you thought would never happen. I have never learned so much from one person. You have taught me lessons that I will carry with me for life, lessons that will make me a better person. The greatest gift you have given me is the ability to believe. I talk to you everyday and I believe that you can hear every word. I believe that there has to be a greater purpose for you and that you were too perfect for this world. I hope that you are fulfilling your wildest dreams, that your heart is at peace, and that you can feel the love that people have for you. I don’t think that you ever knew how much I truly cared for you, and it was because I cared so much that I expected that much more. In return, I expect more from myself and intend on making you proud. We’ll talk soon, until then, peace be with you, your family, and your friends.

James' Family / From: A friend of a friend 7/5/2005 - - The website is beautiful and is a wonderful reflextion of who James was. May time help to heal your wounds. Stay strong, for James.

James / From: Mike Torunian 7/7/2005 - - James, you were truly a special guy and shall never be forgotten. You were unique...you have given many, including myself, the encouragement to pursue dreams and to realise that nothing is beyond reach if one commits. I will miss you greatly...take care of yourself...Mike

James / From: Scotcher 7/9/2005 - - It took me a while to find the words to say and I still don't believe they do justice to how I feel. James, not only were you a great guy to party with, you always set a good example. You were like a role model to me, which is funny since I'm like two years older than you. Though, I think you had a positive influence on anyone who knew you regardless of age. I often found myself looking back and wishing I could of done things the way you did them. Your shining example will continue to motivate me. I have nothing but great memories of hanging out with you, whether they be drinking with you over at the Dickisons or playing Halo to all hours of the night. I'm forever grateful that I got the opportunity to know you and very proud to call you my friend. Take care buddy.

The Ratcliffe Family and everyone that has ever known James / From: Kevin Eller 7/21/2005 - - I only found out about this tribute page a couple of days ago, and while flipping through the pictures I came across one of James and I in Pre-School and it brought back one unforgettable memory. When James and I were four years of age occasionally we'd hang out, except back then it wasn't called "hanging out" it was "do you want to come over and play?” And of course it would always be at his house, because his toys were so much better then mine. But I remember the first time I went over to the Ratcliffe’s and James took out of his room this gigantic Transformer Optimus Prime Thing-a-Majig, and it was without a doubt the coolest thing I had ever seen in my life (now remember I'm only four here, so I haven't seen too much). I went home that day begging my parents to buy me one because "James Ratcliffe had one and I wanted to have just as much fun as he was having." So in other words, I was just a little jealous. Now, why does this story stand out so much in my mind? Simply because I've come to the realization that since the age of four I've been envious of James Ratcliffe and how perfect he was and always will be. Now I know perfect might sound a tiny bit cliché, because nobody is in fact perfect, but if there was ever to be a human being to be as close to perfect as physically and mentally possible... James Ratcliffe would be the first one on the list. I was really looking forward to living in Ottawa with James, even though we'd be attending different schools. I would give anything to hear him again when I told him I'd be going to Carleton, "Alright Eller, coming to Ottawa... We're going to be un-stoppable!!!" To tell you the truth, part of the reason I was looking at Ottawa U and Carleton so vigorously was so that I could hang out with James again, or should I say play? Geez, I would give anything to play with James Ratcliffe again. And let it be known that I did eventually get that Transformer toy and I still have it to this day. But now it's more of a keep sake, because everytime I'll see it standing there, it will only remind me of a very special friend and the only guy I know that could be a role model to someone that was his own age.

James and his friends and family / From: Lissa "double s" 7/21/2005 - - I didn't know James for long but throughout my life I would always hear about this incredible "Ratcliffe". When it finally came time for me to apply for a job at the Y.C I was more excited to meet "Ratcliffe" then to get the job. Thank you James for letting me join the Y.C team where I have met many wonderful people and made many great friends. To his friends, from experience I can tell you that he will live forever in you and remembering him and his greatness is the best way to accept his passing. To his family, althought I have only met you the few times at the Y.C I can see that you are loving, caring, generous people and your strength throughout everything gives us (the young'uns) all hope for a great future. Thank you for being you!!! Goodbye James, see you on the flip side!!! xoxo

James / From: Vanessa 7/30/2005 - - thinking of you always, but at this moment especially. I miss you.

James's family and friends / From: Betty & Brian Halfpenny England 8/1/2005 - - We never had the privilege of meeting with you. Jane has told us how much you were loved, by everyone. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time.

Jimmy.... / From: Carolyn C 8/1/2005 - - James, even as the days go by I still cant understand why.... just please know I"m thinking of your always and I miss you more then ever....

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 8/2/2005 - - Message from Ground Zero. Diane, Jessica and I are doing about as well as can be expected, thanks in large part to the support of everyone around us, including this website which we visit often. So many wonderful memories of James have been shared here. I think it’s important that we all forget about trying to find reason, explanation or logic in such random acts of the universe. Those answers simply don’t exist. It’s also important that we all talk openly about it and help each other get used to it. I know some of James’ friends are still having a very hard time talking and would be glad to see anyone who wants to talk about James' life and death. From my perspective it’s like someone has strapped a 500-pound backpack on each of us that we can’t remove. The first steps are impossible, exhausting and painful and we collapse often under the new load. With time, we will become stronger and can carry the load farther on the good days, but still collapse from time to time. With more time, we’ll be strong enough to carry the weight and have normal lives. The load will always be there, we’ll just be strong enough to carry it and feel normal. For those close to this, including friends, we all need to learn to carry this load without letting it ruin any single part of what we are. That would be what James would want from us. The load is huge because James was loved by so many. The good memories of James help to lighten that load, and there are so many great memories to share. It’s important for you all to consider that James wasn’t accidentally who he was. He chose to expect a lot from himself and work hard at it. That included his generosity and caring, his academics, his ethics and work ethic, his focus on his appearance and mostly moving towards a future plan of his own. He did that every day for himself and made it look easy, but as his friend, coach and parent I know how hard he worked to be the best be could. If there is one big lesson we can learn from James it’s to make your life your own, don’t just let take it for granted and let life happen to you. Stay well, and be good to yourselves and each other.

James / From: Kosta 8/2/2005 - - Hey man...it took me a while to think of something to write here. Remember how crazy you thought i was the first time you saw me screaming at you through a window at La Bop....good times eh...You were one of my closest friends that i met in university...losing you probably hasn’t hit me to its fullest yet and I’m already in agony... I give my sympathies to your friends, family and especially Janine, Jessica and your parents....Out of all my closest friends you seemed to be the most destined for success. It’s sad to think that you won’t be able to follow that destiny anymore. Il never forget all the times we had hanging out, drinking beers, talking about the mother rat, going to the gym and so much more. You taught me and everyone else around you more than you could have ever imagined. I am so grieved to lose you but lately I can put a smile on my face knowing the positive impact you have had on this world and everybody you touched while in it. I know one day I’l see you smiling once again and until then your memory will always live on in my heart. I’ll miss you so much and will always love ya...peace out man---your buddy Kosta

James / From: Jay Morgan(Ottawa) 8/8/2005 - - As I sit here, tears rolling down my face, I now know you're in a better place James..I'll never forget the times we shared in Ottawa. Do you remember out double date with Janine and lex?? remember how we ended up drinking and they took us home, but not before we took the casino for some cash?? Do you remember when you brought the Hudson boys to Ottawa for that crazy night? the night Trev and I had to carry you to the cab?? Do you remember the chinese buffet and how we couldnt move after? Do you remember edward 40 hands and how proud you were to not finish last?? What about the Gee-Gee's game at the Corel center?? And how could you forget our trip to Hudson?? Roast beef, cherry pie and lots of beers...definatly the best weekend of the year..Dude we had a blast together. Everyday you cross my mind James.. Im always wondering what you are doing up there....I know you're probably still working on your massive arms haha man you were so proud of them. I know that you're looking over us with you're huge smile buddy. I also know how worried you must be about Janine .. but i can promise you that she is being well taken care of.. we are all here for her buddy....I can't wait for the day when I see you again man.. you were and still are a great friend.. I will never EVER forget you James. Keep shining that smile down on us buddy. Your friend forever, Jay Morgan P.S you better have a few on ice for when i get up there, we have alot of catching up to do

james / From: jenn 8/8/2005 - - Oh James! It's been such a short time since you have passed, and yet it feels like forever ago... My back aches and my hands are raw as the bar staff and I have been working hard trying to maintain the bar the way you would have wanted it to be. If I could take one thing back, it would be making fun of you for the "easy" job I once thought you had! But now, with my new found wrinkles and strands of gray, I can vouch that this job is anything but easy, yet the staff and members have been amazing and wonderfully supportive during this hard time. As the end of our first HYC summer without you approaches, I just wanted to tell you that I think of you and your family often. They seem to be holding up well as I see them occassionally on the terrace with friends, watching the sunsets undoubtedly missing your presence. I miss you too bud and, oh yeah! If there is ANY way you can send down some advice on how many people I have to staff for the Labour Day Regatta, it would be GREATLY appreciated! ;) Love ya! xoxo

James, Jess and Family / From: Nick Thompson 8/9/2005 - - James, though i havn't seen you or your sister really since our graduation some 6 years ago i must say that i was deeply hit by the news of your passing and instantly remembered some very fond memories of highschool and what a great kid you were, and what a great touch you and your family put into the community. I've though a great deal about loss in the last 2 months since your death... Though you're gone to us in the physical world you will udoubtely live on and be a huge part of many hearts. Sometimes god keeps the finest blossom for his own garden.

James / From: Tim Thomas 8/10/2005 - - Jimbo I think about you eveyday, all the great times we spent together. The summers comming to a close and its tough to come to grips with eveything thats happend. Seeing your father everyday is so inspiring, hes a pillar of strength, now I can see where all those smarts came from. You were always a great friend to me buddy and ill never forget. Hot tubs will never be quite the same with out you. Next beer is on me buddy. See ya on the other side.

James / From: Trev 8/15/2005 - - I asked your parents if I could say a few words today, James - and they have allowed me that privilege. I have talked privately to you a lot since Monday - and will continue to once this week-end is over - but today I’d like to say these words out loud just in case there is one single person out there who did not know what an amazing guy you were. Whew, it’s not going to be easy big guy - but - here goes – this one’s for you! When I woke up Monday morning- I could never have believed in my wildest dreams - that I would be standing up here today. But - that was Monday morning – when the world still made sense. By Monday evening - the bottom had fallen out of that world when we found out that James Ratcliffe – beloved son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin, godson, boyfriend and friend was gone. I will not stand here and try to make sense of why your life was cut short, James. No one knows the answer to that. But - you died doing something that you loved and something that was important to you. We will remember that and maybe - somehow - that will help us in the days to come. When I read the articles in the newspaper about you - I read that you were a straight A student - active in the leadership program - participated in sports and all other aspects of school - won the Avon scholarship, etc. All accomplishments to be proud of - for sure. But - I wonder if people who did not know you Jimmy - could read between the lines and see what a great, funny guy you were as well - “Just one of the guys”. If they knew the hundreds of friends you have made over your short lifetime. If they can understand how much you loved this town. I did not know you as long as some of the people here today did - and maybe a little longer than others. But, since we met, we have become amazing friends. We have taken some fantastic trips together – Florida, Smuggs, Panorama, and – of course - our never to be forgotten Europe trip. And each place that we went I was stuck sleeping next to you. And while there is not one person here that can say anything bad about you James, you know what bud? - your morning breath left a lot to be desired!. James, look around at all the people in this church today, - some who have known you since your diaper days and others who have only met you in the past year. And you know your whole amazing group of Ottawa friends – including your beautiful Jeanine are all here as well. Man - the church cannot even handle the crowds – they are overflowing outside! And all the hundreds of people who showed up yesterday at the Community Center and who have visited your house this week? It is obvious that the community that you loved so well returns your love a hundred fold. Man – you are really loved. James, you were not allowed to ring the doorbell when you came to our house. That was for guests. You were told to just walk in. Why should you be treated specially? You were no different than any other member of our family. Because that is how we always thought of you – a member of our family. And that is how we will always think of you. James - you , Jessica and your parents are such an amazingly close family and they have always been so incredibly proud of you. Your parents and Jessica are hurting now James. Hurting very badly. But, I want you to know, buddy, that even though you aren’t home any more, and even though we will never be able to take your place, we will be there for them and help in any way we can. Jess - I have never seen a brother so happy to answer the question “ Hey James - How’s your sister doing?” I hope you know how incredibly proud he was of you. I have always felt so close to your family. James is a brother to me - and Jess – plain and simple – you are my sister. And Mrs. Ratcliffe - you can’t make cherry pie like yours and expect us guys not to be camping out on your doorstep begging for more!! Believe me - you will get sick of seeing us. Mr. Ratcliffe - I always followed the advice that James would give me - and I know that most of his wisdom came from you. If you ever need a young man to share your thoughts then give me a call. I have always looked forward to spending time with you and James - and I will always look forward to sitting down and talking about what your son - and my friend, accomplished in his life. The Ratcliffe family has been so strong this week. They have comforted this town when it should have been the town comforting them. We are all lucky to be a part of the Ratcliffes’ life. Later today, down at the Yacht Club, we will raise our glasses in a toast to you, buddy. Tomorrow - life will start to regain some sense of normalcy for most of us. The world, as we know it though - has been changed forever because you are gone. But we will never forget you, big guy. You will be our inspiration, our yardstick against which we will measure our lives from here on in. So this is me saying goodbye for now James - but I know you will always be there. Like Chief Milot told me yesterday. You took on the hardest job of all. You are now the town’s guardian angel. You are our hero. God bless you James! I love u man.

James / From: Trev 8/15/2005 - - James I have visited this sight everyday since Homer set it up, even several times a day. Each time I just sit in front of the screen listening to the music. I keep thinking over and over again that if I eventually write something than that would actually mean that you are gone. That would mean that I have accepted it. So I put it off, over and over again until tonight, I realized that you deserve this more than anyone I have ever known. Every day I wonder why this had to happen to you. To a wonderful student, employee, friend, son and a brother. The answer to that question does not exist. I would do anything to have you back, sitting next to me having a beer. The times that we shared together are priceless. James the amount of obstacles you have over come, the amount of friends that you have made, the amount of goals that you have reached and the amount of love that you have shared is unbelievable. Just thinking of all the things that you have done for your community, your friends and your family makes me want to be a better person. I know your probably thinking that everything that has been done in your honor is too much, but James you deserve every bit of it. I know that your loss will stick with me for the rest of my life, I am happy that I got to be part of your life. We’ve been though some rough times together, and we shared many good times. All the memories that I have of you will stay with me until the day that I can see you again. Where we can sit down and have a cold one once again. James, Thank you for all the advice that you have given me, thank you for all the laughs that we shared. Thank you for being there for me when I needed someone to talk to and thank you for letting me be one of you many friends. Take care bud. You da man!

James / From: Evan Langendorf 8/15/2005 - - I remember the morning i woke up and heard that a local firefighter had died. I went to my dads room to tell him the news but he had already heard. I asked him if he knew who it was who passed. When he said ur name i didnt beleive him. I was shocked and didnt want to beleive him for that matter. I didnt know how something so horrible could happen to someone so great. Many of my early life memories were at the Yatch Club, many of my memories were with you. You were one of the best guys and definetly the nicest, but when it came down to waterpolo you were a monster. I was always the smallest on the team and barely got to play but it taught me many things playing with you. You were a great person and a great firefighter, my mentor and friend and you will never be forgotten. The reason it took me so long to write to you was that i didnt want to accept it, but now i am and its hard. I havent cried up till now, but these arent tears of anger they are tears of reality. I know see how short life can actualy be and it makes me want to be a better person, a person that has the ambition and drive that u did. You changed my life for the better and you changed Hudson. You are our hero and someday i hope i can see you again. Thank you for being a great person. Rest in our hearts forever. Evan

James / From: Ashley Lawrence 8/19/2005 - - James, I just wanted to start by saying how sorry I truly am. I don't know what has taken me sooo long to write this message, i've been thinking about it a lot but have never brought myself to do it until now. Even though we were never really that close I still think about you almost everyday. I think about the times we shared at IGA, you would always come over to my cash and ask me about mine and paul's latest fight. And for some reason you would always take his side, and it made me laugh because I knew you were right and that I was being completely unreasonable (not that I ever admitted that to you or Paul). Well, if you are watching over your friends and family and the whole community for that matter you know how missed you are and how proud everyone is of you, and how proud we all are to have had you in our lives. And you would be so proud as well because even though this has been extremely difficult and unbearable for your family and friends they have been pulling through and handling your passing in the best way that they can. You were an amazing and an extremely special person who will be thought of constantly and missed by all. Good bye James. Love Ashley

James / From: unknown 8/21/2005 - - we never hung out or had a long discussion but the truth is james you touched my life and taught me lessons without knowing. Ever since you left there has been an empty space inside of me, I just wish we could all wake up and have you here among us again. We miss you James, hope to see you soon. Godspeed

Jess / From: Sam 8/24/2005 - - I think about James every day, and in so doing, I think how often you must think of him. While I had only met James on a couple of occasions, it is in knowing your strength, your humour, your charisma, your intelligence, and your giant heart, that I begin to understand the tremendous loss you feel with his death. In knowing YOU, I can know him. Words seem inadequate when talking about this stuff. I wish I could translate feeling more accurately - it doesn't seem enough to say, I can imagine, or I emphathize...because it isn't really like that. It is more like a big ache in my heart for you. It is hard to be patient for time - that healer of all wounds and aches and pains. It never seems to move quickly enough, but I guess it's all about the journey and not the destination. I know you will find a way to "Talk" to James and hear him and I hope that we are able to continue talking about his life and your memories and where you are in the crazy process you've been thrust into. It's not fair, but you refuse to fall into self pity, though one could hardly blame you if you did. You are inspiring. Your capacity to comfort others despite your own hurt is truly amazing. I love you so much. Thank you for being my friend, Sam

James / From: Mrs. T. 8/27/2005 - - James, It is so hard to try to put into words how your passing has affected me, my family, friends and the community as a whole. I think of you every day and how truly hard it has been to accept what has happened. Having known you for over 15 years, my thoughts are full of wonderful memories....all the years at both Harwood and Hudson High, having you be such a great friend to all the Tresidder kids (lots of advice also!), our trip to Disney in celebration of the millenium, great Alouettes' memories, and soccer memories (both as a spectator who frequently came to cheer on the team and the Fall that you coached and helped me organize the HHS season when the extra-curricular activities had been cancelled - you were truly a great help). The one constant memory that I now have is your wonderful smile!!! You were always the one who would approach anyone or any situation with a self-assurance that radiated through that grin!!!! Your accomplishments have been an inspiration to many and we will miss you always. Please continue to give strength to your Mom and Dad, Jessica, your family, Janine, your MANY friends (both young and old!!) and the community as a whole. Please keep smiling down on us......we will keep you in our hearts forever. Love always, Mrs. T.

James / From: Alex Olliver 9/10/2005 - - It has taken me over a month to actually put words down about your leaving. We grew together through high school, and you helped me learn who I was and wanted to be. James you are a man of many things, and I always new you would be something great, something admirable, and when you left, you left as someone that I will forever look up too. I missed you every Friday night barbeque when I walked into the HYC and you weren't standing behind the bar, to anticipating your arrivals at Trev’s summer BBQ’s. It never mattered if we spoke or did not speak at all the entire night at the same event, or party, but your presence was always noticed, I promise you that. Growing up in a small town has it good points, and it’s bad. But you know what you only ever saw the good. in everyone and everything. James you will be missed so much, and everyday I think of a different conversation, or lesson we learned together and I feel comforted because we went through a lot together and I am forever thankful to have gotten to know you as I did. Take care, and keep us all safe, you are forever in my heart. I know only you will understand what I am about to say. And I know you can hear me find the compass i once gave you, use your compass, for me.

James / From: Melissa Mair 9/16/2005 - - James, I am sorry that it has taken me so long to talk to you, and even longer to write to you. I miss you so much, every day and even so, I am only now realizing that you are gone. I first met you in preschool and then grew up with you every summer at the Yacht Club. I always cherished those memories, but now they are even more precious. I will always remember you hanging out at the park or working at the bar. It's so different now, so hard there without you. We spend so many mornings together in homeroom and then in french class. Later, you went away to school but whenever we saw each other, you always asked me what was going on in my life. I remember becoming frustrated in high school because you would try to set me straight. i just want you to know that even though I'd tell you to mind your own business, it really meant a lot to me that you cared so much. You were always the one to say what others avoided bringing up. Everyone talks about you as the perfect student or an amazing firefighter, which is all true, but I just think of you as a friend that I really miss. i am just really happy that we have gotten to know all your friends from school. It comforts me that when you were away from home, you were with such great people. Hudson is not the same without you here and I miss you so much James, I will never stop thinking about you.

James / From: K.Schaller 9/20/2005 - - Unfortunately I did not know James, like many did but i do know that he has touched many hearts and will always be remembered. Now he's our guardian angel and will never be forgotten. My condolences go out to his family and friends. Love Kat

James / From: Munchkin 9/20/2005 - - Baby I just wanted to tell you how much I love & miss you...things are just no where near how they used to be here. The absence of your presence is getting more and more painful, so please continue to give us all strength. I think of you all the time...wish you were here. Je love & miss toi so much.

James / From: Andrea 9/21/2005 - - I think of you every day. I am back in Ottawa and I see you all over campus, in the faces of young guys with spiky brown hair and great smiles. I regret never having been better friends with you, and I feel for your mom and dad and jess, and for your boys who are so strong whenever I see them. You impacted so many people and you were such a big part of Hudson High School - - I hope you knew that, I hope you know this now. I wish I could put everything I am feeling and thinking at this very random moment into words, but words fail me.. so I will just say rest in peace, I will continue to remember you every day and try to enjoy life the way I think you did.

James / From: Phil 9/29/2005 - - Dear James, I first want to apologize for not having written this sooner, but you know me, I tend to procrastinate. Although this was a little different. It has taken some time for me to really understand how I feel and to realize what you meant to me. Everyday I think of you, miss you, and wish you were still with us today. You were a very good friend of mine and its very hard to really comprehend your not here anymore. I like to think you can still hear me, and if you can read this now then you can for sure hear me when I speak to you. I can remember countless times when I went to you for advice and it was always very intelligent. I’m thankful you thought enough of me to also ask my advice from time to time. If you were here today I know you’d have something comforting and intelligent to say. I look at the world differently now, it’s all a little more precious. Nothing I can write will ever do justice to how I feel, but hopefully this is a start. I really hope someday we will meet again; we can go hot tubing and watch Dave Chappell. I’ll never forget you James. Rest in peace.

James / From: Heather 9/29/2005 - - Hi James, I have already written once, but I have decided to write to you again. Over the past few months, I have realized how many true friends you had during your short life. There are so many young people mourning your death and who are really affected by what you did throughout your 20 years with us, and for what you stood for. Your dedication as a student, fire fighter, employee, son, brother and friend is very much missed by all. It is funny how many see you in different lights. I myself knew you as someone I worked with, some see you as their fellow firefighter brother and others as a close childhood friend. Either way, everyone misses you so much and I can sense the admiration everyone in town has for you. You and I were never very close, in fact, I think you and I can agree that we drove each other crazy with our antics at times; however, it is through your antics and your charisma that I learnt a few lessons of my own. Rest in peace, keep everyone safe and out of trouble if you can… Catch you later… Heather

Janine / From: Mads 10/13/2005 - - today must have been really hard for you...remembering this time last year and how happy and excited you were to have finally become james' girlfriend. me you and lex sitting in our room giggling excitedly about everything that went on on your birthday...i can't beleive it's been a year. it seems like yesterday, but it also seems like another lifetime. after all the relationship advice i feebly attempted to give you, philosophical talks we had about love, late-night crying marathons followed by sharing in your joy the next day when it turned out you were worrying for nothing...i was on the sidelines of your relationship with james from day one and i can't even begin to understand how much you miss him. he will always be by your side and i know you will continue to make him proud every single day of your life. he's looking down on you today with love. i love you janine, you're an amazing human being. happy 20th birthday, love mads

Diane, Peter, and Jessica and Family / From: Carol, Gerry, Sarah and Julie in Nova Scotia 10/18/2005 - - Our sincerest sympathy to all your family and friends. I meet James only a few times in his young life as a little boy while visiting you all and remember a very quiet, but not shy little boy, with lots of big smiles and huges, he was a charmer from the very start and he will live on in our hearts forever, and we will look forward to all meeting again in eternity. God Bless.

James / From: Lex 10/18/2005 - - I want you to know that I still smile and think of you every day. You always told me that nothing lasts forever, and looking back I see that what you meant was to hold on to what you have with every grain of strength. That's exactly what I'm doing. Thinking of you, always.

James / From: Flippy 11/6/2005 - - I know i haven't written to you in a while, and for that i am so sorry. I think of you every day. i miss you so much, and i am sorry that i can't word myself as well as everyones else on this site, but i just hope that you can feel how sincere i am when i tell you that i miss you so much it actually hurts sometimes. these past five months have gone by so fast....it still seems like yesterday. I'll keep this short. I love you and i miss you more than i can put in to words. Love always - Flippy

James / From: Holly 11/10/2005 - - I've visited this site plenty of times, trying to read all of the messages, wondering what to say... I still don't really know what to say. It's 5 months later and my mind is blank. I knew you all throughout high school, but never as much as I could have. However, I do have one fond memory with you on the Europe trip that I'll never forget. Despite us not being close, you helped me so much that night, I'll never forget your words of advice and I can't thank you enough for that. You must know now what an effect you had on people. Just about the whole world remembers you and what kind of person you were. God bless you James.

Janine / From: Caylen 11/12/2005 - - Neener, you and I haven't spoken in a long time, not for any huge reason...all I can say about all of this is that I cannot believe it. You are such a strong person and you have endured a lot, and for that, I admire you. I couldn't imagine dealing with this...couldn't even fathom it. And for James, a man I never knew, reading the messages left for you from loved ones has made me hope with all my heart that I can be remembered the way everyone around will remember you, as someone who was always there and cared. Janine, I love you man...and I'm here. Love Caylen

A hero's family / From: Kathy Morgan (Jay's mom) in Kingston 11/30/2005 - - My heart felt sympathy to you all. My son Jay was home for the weekend and showed me James site. How proud you most be of James. Jay talks about James all the time and always with a smile. I didnt know James personaly, but thanks to Jay I feel like I've known James. His memory lives on in those who knew him. With this Holiday season approaching....keep in mind his beautiful smile is your shinning star. With much respect and heartfelt love. Kathy Morgan

James / From: Jenna 11/30/2005 - - Dear James, This has been some year. I don't think that there are words in my vocabulary that can express my sorrow and grattitude to you. Looking back you made so many people enjoy life. So in honor of you James, I created the calender and I also dedicate it to you. I know you would've probably been the most fun to work with and you certainly would've enjoyed doing it. I want to thank you for everything you are and everything you have given me.Take it easy James - until we meet again...xox

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 11/30/2005 - - On behalf of our family, as we approach the holidays I would like to extend our thanks to all of you who have helped us begin to learn to face life without James. Being surrounded by his friends has reminded us of the truly special blessing that James was in our life. There have been so many who have helped in so many ways, I thank each and every one of you. Diane, Jessica and I are planning to stay around Hudson for most of the Holidays and face the inevitable emotions and difficulties head on. Christmas was always a very special time for James. James dearly loved assembling and delivering baskets with the firefighters. Last year James came home in the middle of exams to do that with the firefighters. He also lectured me on my ladder safety as we lit our house to second place in the Hudson Lights competition last year. James and I had plotted and had made plans to win it this year, but I have chosen not put out any lights this first year without him. So we will find much sadness in each and every Christmas to come, but also many happy reminders of the special kindness and love that James shared with so many and the special son, brother and friend that James was. From my own perspective, at this time of year I’d likely be busy negotiating James’ eleventh revision of his Christmas wish list into something approaching the fiscal reality of a small third world nation and scrambling to find an X-Box 360 with the hottest new games and accessories. I’ll miss those challenges. But we always had incredible great family times at Christmas and it reminded us of our truly rich bounty of blessings, including James. If you would like to see us, please do not hesitate to give us a call. If it is a bad time or at all inconvenient for us we will honestly let you know, but we really do love sharing memories and thoughts of James. As each of you looks forward to the Holidays please take with you a smile like James brought into every room he walked into. In honour of him, carry some of James’ friendship and attitude with you, a firm handshake or a strong hug for everyone. If someone dares you to shave stripes on your leg for money, give up the hair take their money and laugh, just like James would have. Talk of the love in your families openly and resolve any anger in the best spirit of Christmas. Do not take a single day for granted; life indeed is ultimately and inevitably a fatal endeavor of unknown duration. Every day counts if you make it count; a day wasted is lost forever. We can’t choose how or when our lives end, so you can only choose how you live each day. James somehow knew how to make the most of his short time here and has left an incredible positive legacy in all of our memories. And above all else, please play safe, take care of each other, be happy and don’t drink and drive, because that’s just really stupid and you’re all way smarter than that. Our best wishes for a Happy Holiday, Peter Ratcliffe

James&Family / From: Anthony 12/2/2005 - - James, everybody misses you and nobody has stopped thinking about you and your positive influnece on us all. I believe that the reason you were so influential was because you were so much like your Dad, I also believe that I speak on behalf of the community when I say that we all admire your Dad and your Family so much for their strength and courage. Mr. Ratcliffe, the messages that you have written on this website have blown me away every time, I read your messages over and over and I find them encouraging and helpful for moving from denial to acceptance. I have realized that nothing will fill the empty space that this tragedy has created, bu

James&Family / From: Anthony ( Continued) 12/2/2005 - - , but I also realize that James was an increadible person and he will never ever be forgotten and that empty space can be filled with what we have experinced with James. It is unfortunate that it takes a loss for us to understand not to blink beacause we might miss it all, but it has become apparant that life is not fair and the actions from above are not always justified. Mr. Ratcliffe if you would like help with your Christmas lights there is no shortage of hands, but I understand if you don't. James I miss you so much buddy, so does everybody, see you upstairs. -Anthony

James et al / From: jenn w. 12/3/2005 - - I was motivated to write you a quick note tonight. I just finished a horrible day and was pretty bummed about a few things. When I arrived home from work, I threw my purse on my bed and turned on my bedroom light. As I looked down, I immediately noticed a picture lying on my nightstand. I picked it up and realized it was of you and me, laughing and hugging from about 8 years ago at one of my sister's high school parties! I guess Laura had found it and gave it to me. I sat on my bed and started to laugh and cry at the same time. It was so ironic because all I wanted at that moment was a hug! Even though it was just in a picture, I felt your presence and I realized how much I miss ya. Anyways, thanks for hug and for making my crappy day a bit brighter.... xoxo to you and your family :)

Peter, Diane, and Jess / From: Sam 12/18/2005 - - Wishing you love and peace over the holidays. Sam

The Ratcliffe's and James' friends in Hudson / From: Madison, Janine's former roommate 12/20/2005 - - I just want to wish all of you the best during what must be a difficult holiday season. My thoughts are with you.

James / From: Mowin 12/23/2005 - - still missing you buddy. see you at the next one

James / From: Stephie 12/23/2005 - - Hey buddy, Missed you at the fireman's party, but we got a great shot of our group, including you in the maltese. I've put it in my helmet - I know you'll look after me and the rest of us. Miss you always James. It's still not the same without you. Our group is still, and always will be, one short. See you at the next call, love stephie

The Ratcliffe Family / From: The Cassidy Family 12/26/2005 - - We wanted to share our christmas blessing with you "Merry Christmas, we take this time to give thanks for all we have. We are a family that has been truly blessed with healthy children and good fortune. For that we give thanks and take this time to appreciate how lucky we are. We acknowledge those that could not be with us today, especially our friend James who left us this year. We miss him greatly but remember him fondly and think of him often, our thoughts go out to his family today who are struggling to make it through what should have been a very happy time. Our thoughts also go out to Michele's mother, who will hopefully make a full recovery. Merry Christmas everyone; may the next year bring us health and happiness and may we all take time to acknowledge how blessed we truly are. Amen"

James family / From: Australia 2/4/2006 - - I am married to a Ratcliffe family in Australia, and have a son called James Ratcliffe who is going to be sixteen this year. He is handsome like your son James. I am saddened by your great loss of your son James. I am sure he had achieved a lot in his short life more than a lot of us can achieve in a life time. God's peace and best wishes from Australia.

James / From: V 2/11/2006 - - I just miss you, thats all. Sometimes I get so mad and sad and I don't understand why it had to be this way. I hope you can still see us all, even though we cant see you. big kisses and hugs james.

Jimmy / From: Peter, Eddie, Greg & Carl 2/18/2006 - - Raising a glass to you Jimmy,,, Every get together we have you're always with the boys.... We love you and miss you and we'll see you on the other side! FF Peter M wishes you were here so he could shave your legs - Ha Ha - Rest in peace Jimmy.

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 2/20/2006 - - We are deeply saddened to be reminded of the fragility of life by a recent tragic death of a local teen. Events like this, where someone dies so young, bring us big steps backwards in our own journey. We count ourselves as extremely fortunate that every part of James' death was the consequence of noble, intelligent and well intended actions, serving a fine community as part of a well planned and extremely well lived life. We will miss James every minute for the rest of our lives, but are immensely proud of the way James lived and unfortunately died. There are simply no answers or comfort we can expect to find to the "why?" questions we often ask ourselves. Our acceptance of a fickle universe's sometimes cruel twists and turns comes very hard, but inevitably we must find the ways to accept the reality that we are not destined to know why some things happen. I said countless times in fatherly advice to James: "Life's not fair, get used to it and get on with it", never expecting to be so challenged to live by my own advice. Every minute with James was, above anything else, entertaining, happy, fun and special, and every memory we have is wonderful. Memories of those twenty exceptional years are all we have left, thankfully they are all incredibly positive and warm or we would likely be much more lost. James was above anything else a happy loving son who constantly made us laugh. These past few have been long tough months for us. The reality of this saddness continues to seep so deeply into us. Enjoyment and laughter that once came so easily in our lives is rare and takes real effort. Simply put, we are no longer able to find a truly comfortable place on this planet where this loss doesn't bring sadness and loneliness to us. We seek to find the strength to live with that discomfort for hopefully a very long time to come and somehow learn to enjoy happiness and to someday laugh easily again. We are often exhausted at the effort it takes, but have found strength we never expected. We are so blessed wih Jessica, another perfect child, who lives a fun and happy but also well planned and well intentioned life with great success. Our hopes and dreams for her future leaves us with a truly bright and happy future for ourselves. to participate in. We continue to be truly blessed and overwhelmed with the attention and support of so many caring friends who have helped by sharing our loss. This is destined to be the longest hardest walk a parent can travel, on an uncharted path we would never have chosen. But life chose this journey for us. Those who take the time to walk with us for any part of that journey with us, large or small, make it easier. So thank you all for taking the time you do. Stay well and please try to make sure that every memory you will eventually leave behind in your own lives is positive and happy. It does absolutely make a difference. If there may be no sure tomorrow, then please make sure that today is somehow truly special.

The Ratcliffes / From: Jenn W. 2/24/2006 - - Just passing along and read your recent entry Mr. Ratcliffe. I thought of your family when I heard of Stevie Riley's unfortunate death, and I just wanted to say that I, along with my family, think of you often. We hope you are doing well despite the obvious and that you continue to inspire us with your words of wisdom. Hugs to you all! ~ Jenn

James and Family / From: an old friend 2/26/2006 - - Another amazing message made by Peter Ratcliffe.....how do you do it? None of us will ever know how your family keeps so strong while still grieving over the loss of James. You are a role model for everyone. I honeslty hope that you will be blessed when a day will eventually come when you can easily laugh and celebrate the life of James. And to James - even though we didn't talk that much after high school it is incredible how much I miss you and think of you. I still see you in my dreams sometimes, though not as much as I did last summer. Everyone misses you James....... see you in my dreams. xxoo

Friends & Family of James / From: Homer 2/28/2006 - - Hey all, sorry to report that I was having some issues with the server and thus lost 1 or 2 messages. I am trying to get a backup so that I can restore them, but as of now they are lost in cyber-space. Sorry Peter!!!

Hudson Fire Department & Ratcliffe family / From: Braidwood Fire Fighter/EMT Bolatto 3/1/2006 - - I am truley sorry for your loss. I am the sam age and am truely touched by this young man. He is an inspiration to all of the younger generation at our department.

The Ratcliffe Family / From: The Wright Family 3/5/2006 - - Just thinking of all of you and your family at this time and so wishing that the hands of time could be turned back. However, we all know that is impossible. Our family, however, think of you daily and hope that you are all able to begin to move forward and know your friends and the community at large are there to be your safety net, should you feel the ned to fall. You will ALWAYS be in our thoughts and the thoughts of everyone in this town. Stay brave.

James / From: Lisa 3/9/2006 - - Dear James, I miss you. I knew when you passed that I was extremely lucky because there was nothing unsaid between us. But, as the months pass, and the memories randomly flood back, I realize there was so much that you couldn't have known how grateful I was for. So, thanks for sneaking me lemonups from the bar, tutoring me in Chemistry, being my cool older friend when I came to HHS, talking me through my first break up, having lunch with me every friday my first year at Abbott, and being one of the many big brothers I inherited upon my entrance into the extended Dickison family... thanks for ALWAYS making me feel special, every smile and laugh, every fight and debate. I loved fighting with you. I miss your prescence more than you can imagine. I waited for you that monday night at the bar, we all did, and we will always be waiting for you now. I think of you every day, speak of you to everyone who never had the priviledge of knowing you, and I attempt to emmulate your spirit and honor in every aspect of my life. You always were, and will continue to be, one of my most cherished role models, big brothers, and friends... thank you for being there. I can't wait to see you again. Love always, Lisa.

Diane, Peter, & Jessica / From: Linda McPhee-Zambom 3/21/2006 - - Memories are the key not to the past, but to the future. Thinking of you on this special day. Linda

James / From: Madison 3/22/2006 - - Raising a glass for you today, remembering how you always managed to keep your good eye open, hahaha! I still miss you man, we all do, and we're all thinking of you.

Diane, Peter and Jessica / From: Alison 3/22/2006 - - Not a day goes by that I haven't thought of James. Today, especially, there are many wonderful memories. Please continue to find whatever strength you can from knowing that so many of your friends and family are thinking of you. With my love and deep hugs, Alison

James / From: Matt O'Grady 3/22/2006 - - thinking fo you on this day, never can i forget the times we had on eachothers birthdays...if it was either bowling or screaming out loud calling people Jolly Ranchers at Clyde's. i'll forever miss you buddy. i think about you every day and i wish that on this day, i was able to give u a hug. always in my thoughts. matt.

James / From: Steph Gobeil 3/22/2006 - - It has been a long time since I have written to you on this site. I have been on it many times to read all the memories that different people have with you. It has helped me to remember more and more of the amazing memories that I have with you as well. Today especially I thought of you and I hope that your parents and your sister know that we think of them all the time. You always tried so hard to make sure that everyone celebrated their special days to the fullest, I remember when I had my 21st birthday party, and you were there to share it with me. You and Trevor also took great care of my little brother and making sure that he had an amazing 18th Birthday. You guys know what I mean. So I want you to know that we are all thinking of you on your special day and that we miss you more than ever. Love Always, Steph

James / From: Robyn Gurr 3/22/2006 - - You're always in my thoughts... Thanks for making everyones lives so much better by being part of it. I Miss You & I will think of you more today... I'll see you again...

James / From: Flip 3/22/2006 - - Hey James, It's been a while since I've written to you. I've tried a couple of times but I couldn't seem to think of the right things to say. I've been thinking about you alot today, your birthday. Even though I always wish this, today more than ever I wish I could give u a hug. I know I'm not alone in wanting that, which is why I also would like to let your familly know that I am thinking of them. I'm not sure how this place compares to where u are now, but I still wanted to send you a happy birthday from home. So happy birthday James. I miss you so much. With Love, Flippy

Peter, Diane, and Jess / From: Homer P & Family 3/22/2006 - - On this day as in many others you're in our thoughts and prayers.

Peter, Diane and Jess / From: The Cassidys 3/22/2006 - - Dear Peter, Diane and Jessica: March 22,2006 James is never far from any of our thoughts, we remember him everyday but especially to-day. There are no words that will make the heartaches any easier but you have to know that as your friends we share in your grief and only wish that we could help lift your burden. To-day we look back and remember the many fun times the boys had and that we had together as families and we remember what a wonderful young man James was. We are grateful for his life even though it was cut short way too soon. Our thoughts are with you. Love Brenda, Keith, Sean, Trevor and Geoff

The Ratcliffes and friends / From: Lex 3/22/2006 - - I have been thinking about you all a lot lately. Last year when some Hudson boys came to Ottawa to celebrate his birthday, we all had a blast. I know you would have given him a great one this year too. My thoughts are with all of you, I wish you well.

James / From: McG 3/22/2006 - - Big hug for you James. Miss you always, but smile for you more! Love you Jim.

James / From: Jenn W. 3/22/2006 - - Happy 21st birthday James... wish you were here! xoxoxo

James / From: Mrs. McNally 3/22/2006 - - Mrs. McNally always sounds so serious to me, but that is what you called me. I just want you to know that every time that I walk into the hall at the HYC I look up at the balcony and smile. IHappy Birthday James,

James / From: Leigh 3/22/2006 - - Miss you today, and everday....

James / From: Unknown 3/23/2006 - - HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAMES shots were had for you i know im an hour and fifteen minutes late but i havent had access to a computer all day/night I just wish you couldve been there to celebrate with us tonite you are always among us and we will never forget you see you soon bud-e

James / From: Al 3/23/2006 - - Happy Birthday James, we are all missing you alot. love you bud.

James / From: James Tchamourian 3/23/2006 - - Hey buddy. It's been too long since I have written you and for that I apologize. I think it was trying to find the right words to say which kept me from doing so...I just wanted to wish you a Happy 21st Birthday. Hudson is doing the best we can to cope, but we will never forget. Please continue to watch over your family and close friends with a guiding hand.

James / From: V 3/23/2006 - - happy birthday wonderful

James / From: A friend 3/23/2006 - - Happy 21st Birthday James. What I wouldn't give to be able to see your smile today... I miss you James, I know you're watching out for everyone. To the many amazing memories, cheers! See you.

James / From: An Old Friend 3/24/2006 - - Hi James, I haven't written to you yet mostly because I didn't know what to say, but today I found myself on your website and spent two hours reading all the wonderful messages left by your friends, family and others. Tears were rolling down my cheeks while I read what people had to say about you and I began thinking of how you have influenced so many friends, and mine as well. Thank You. I've known you since we were kids, our path crossed many times and it will again. With fondness...

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 3/24/2006 - - When we parents bring a child into the world we spend our days in dreaming, hoping, wonder and worry about what the future will bring for our children. A twenty-first birthday seems to be the goal of many parents when our children become truly responsible for themselves and they become an equal adult in the eyes of the world. In fact, James earned the right to be considered our equal long ago, he took responsibility for his own life extremely well, and there was little we needed to add as his parents. James enjoyed his life daily and yet James did all the hard work of his own life himself. James got rewarded for that hard work over and over. As I re-read the entries you’ve written in this guest book I know that while James’ future was tragically cut short, it was incredibly rich. There are several very common words mentioned over and over in the memories he left behind with you. His smile truly set him apart, just look at the pictures and you know he was filled with happiness and love. So many wish they could hug him again, James was a huggable loving child who comfortably relaxed into whoever was holding him. James shared his love for others openly, a lesson he learned from us well. Many of you respect the advice he gave, or the caring he showed for others problems. James actually thought about life and pondered the choices he had to make, rather than simply letting life decide his path for him and taking whatever came by. The good times James shared with so many friends is another common theme, and there were so many friends and countless good times. James showed us that it is important and possible to enjoy the life you have today, while you can, but in balance with your life goals for a long future. Respect for others is another common theme in your messages; you can never go wrong with showing people respect if they deserve it. James had little patience for those who didn’t deserve respect, but he looked for the good in everyone first, never assumed anything in advance. James had by any measure of a man, a truly successful life. Many cared about James because he was actually interested and involved not just in his own life, but in the lives of those around him. James wanted to make the world a better place for not just himself but for everyone. Apparently he has for many of you, many of whom are changing direction and pace in their own lives by the lessons of James’ life. So today, in my grief filled reflection on James life as one shining example of doing a life successfully with purpose and reward, I ask each of you to consider how you will choose to have your own lives remembered. It is in fact your own choices that you make ach and every day that will determine the value you build in your own life, both while living and after you’re gone. Will so many people remember your smile, your hug, your laugh, your friendship, the good times you shared? The choices you can make as you live today and each day to come can build your own life’s value into something truly worth living and worth remembering by many forever. Those who make mostly bad choices or simply don’t apply themselves to living are generally pretty forgettable; it is right that they simply shouldn’t hold our interest for long. It is too obvious that we have no idea how many days we will have left, so a wise person might choose to build their life into something valuable and truly memorable each and every day starting today one small step at a time. Thank you all for caring and sharing your many feelings and thoughts, confirming again for us that James was every bit as memorable as we always knew he was.

James / From: Steve 3/25/2006 - - Hey buddy. I'm just sitting here and I thought that I should write a message. Sorry I didn't wirte on your b-day, but don't worry I didn't forget like I did McGrath's (he was pretty angry). It's coming to that time of year where we start organising the bar. You should see it man, it looks great. We managed to pull it together in the end last summer and you'd be proud of of how Jimmy's Crew did. I look forward to this summer because the HYC bar is where I feel closest to you. Everytime I look in the corner and see the framed picture of you, I know that you are watching over us. Well, I miss you buddy. Have a beer for me up there. Oh and one more thing, I still think about all your cheesy haunted HYC stories. You better not freak me out this summer ( do it to Tron though).

The Ratcliffe family / From: Adam 3/28/2006 - - It has been a long time since I have visited James' website. I suppose it is partially because I have not yet come to terms with anything and I find myself with not much else to say. I want you to know that I think about James everyday and how he has affected my life tremendously, in life and in death. May peace and happiness be with you Peter, Diane and Jessica.

Diane / From: Pat 4/6/2006 - - Saw the web site for the first time. Should have waited a few days.My heart aches. This is the poem we were talking about: When i Must Leave You : by,Helen Steiner Rice When I must leave you for a little while, Please do not grieve and shed wild tears and hug your sorrow to you through the years, But start out bravely with a gallant smile; And for my sake and in my name Live on and do all things the same, Feed not your loneliness on empty days, But fill each waking hour in useful ways, Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer And I in turn will comfort you and hold you near; And never,never be afraid to die, For I am waiting for you in the sky! Love to Peter and Jessica. See you soon. Love Pat P.S. We will all be together in the blink of an eye.

Jessica / From: Mrs. shaar 4/7/2006 - - Happy Birthday Jessica. Wishing you health, happiness, and strength, Love Mrs. Shaar

James / From: FF Dawn C. 5/7/2006 - - Not knowing what to say has been the primary reason I visit your site often but don't end up writing anything. Today (on a positive note) I feel like saying thank you! I knew today that you were around spiritually when the HFD team needed you to be and for that I am grateful. I am sure that like me, there are others who have stopped to say "that must have been James." Whether it be a sense of good luck, a sense of confidence or simply an unexplained smile; we should all stop to say thanks James for continuing to look out for me. So today, I say thank you and may everyone find their 'thank you James' moments....Dawn

James / From: ls 5/14/2006 - - I read this beautiful poem today.It is,i believe,the first poem ever published by Leonard Cohen,and it made me think of you,James,as we all often do. ELEGY Do not look for him In brittle mountain streams: They are too cold for any god; And do not examine the angry rivers for shreds of his soft body Or turn the shore stones for his blood: But in the warm salt ocean He is descending through cliffs Of slow green water And the hovering coloured fish Kiss his snow-bruised body And build their secret nests In his fluttering winding-sheet.

James / From: Greg Lothian 5/16/2006 - - Hi James, It has almost been 1 year and yet I think of you each day. It has been a difficult year in many ways. Some days I wish I had the strength you had. The ability to be as you are to me. You give me strength those days that I need more than what I have inside myself. I miss you.

Jassica, Daine & Peter / From: Greg Lothian 5/16/2006 - - It has been a while since I stopped by to visit. I think of you often. I'm am still at a loss for words. There will forever be a place in my heart for you all. I'll be by soon, I promise

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 5/16/2006 - - There is no need for words if you can’t find them, come and share silence if you have no words to describe your pain. Simply bring your hearts and thoughts together in small quiet groups, share your pain and help heal each other one minute at a time. In order to live well again, every wound must be cared for and healed completely lest it be allowed to fester and cause any further destruction. This wound of James’ death will leave a scar on each of us, no doubt about that. Bear these scars proudly, openly and without hiding then from each other, there is no shame in the human pain or scars of this loss. We humans ultimately become the sum total of everything that we have experienced and survived. James’ death has given us each the opportunity to hurt more than we imagined possible and then to search for the strength we never knew we had inside to heal each other and ourselves. If we heal well as friends, family and community, we will become stronger even as we walk each day limping proudly with this newfound appreciation for the frailty of life. The choices we make from here forward will be important, so make good choices to enjoy each day. James was kind, gentle, caring and very sensitive to the pain of others. James would be disappointed if his accidental death were allowed to eat deeper into any of you or become an excuse in your lives causing any further damage or pain. I do believe that there is a Heaven where we will each proudly meet James again. James will be proud of those that found a way to walk this most difficult walk bending at times but never breaking and ending up stronger in the end. Knowing James I expect he will hold any slackers fully accountable. No sense in risking that, is there?

The ratcliffe Family / From: Doug Seagrim 5/16/2006 - - When I was 18, my brother Roy was killed in a boating accident. He was 20. My parents did not know how to handle this loss. Consequently, they did not acknowledge it in any way. To this day, 42 years later it is still difficult for me to handle emotionally. I admire and respect the way that you are dealing with this tragic loss. I only hope that you will hold together and be strong as it is the only way to go. Jessica, I do not know you but hope that this grief and loss will be shared with you as it was not with me.

Everyone / From: Nanou 5/16/2006 - - So many things happen in life that no one really understands. Little things, big things, life changing things ... I really don't know how to explain it. I have only met James a few times through the fire dept., and all I can remember is this really dedicated person that loved life to the fullest. My fiancee is a firefighter also and from what I hear from him, James was really awesome. I can only offer everyone my sincere condolences and prayers of love, comfort and healing. Here is a song from The Ladder 49 Soundtrack that is very dear to my heart ... The cry of the city like a siren song Wailing over the roof tops, the whole night long I saw a shooting star like a diamond in the sky It must be someone's soul passing by These are the streets where we used to run and where your papa's from These are the days where you become what you become These are the streets where the stories are told and the truth unfolds Darkness settles in... Shine your light down on me LIft me up so I can see Shine your light when your're gone Give me the strenght to carry on No wonnabe hero just and everyday man Trying to do the job the very best he can But now it's like living up the old times Out on the rim and over the line Always tempting faith like a game of chance Never wants to stick around until th every last dance Sometimes we stumble and take a hard fall Loose hold your grip off the wall Shines your light down on me Lift me up so I can see Shine your light when you're gone Give me the strength to carry on I thought I saw him walking by the side of the road Maybe he's trying to find his way home He's here but not here He's gone but not gone Just hope you know if I get lost... Shine your light down on me Lift me up so I can see Shine your light when you're gone Give me the strength to carry on

James / From: Lorelei 6/1/2006 - - I remember my first day of grade 7, you were in my homeroom, and when you walked in, I thought you were one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I immediately had a crush on you, and asked you where my first class was... Took a chance to talk to you any time I could. I felt cool, talking to be a big grade 8er and all. :) Little did I know that day just how beautiful of a person you really were. Over the years, my respect for you grew with every passing day. Not to mention my crush.....haha. Every leadership camp, every basketball game, every fight we'd have in the caf at Abbott... How you were disgusted with my eggburger obsession. How you thought I puked in your hottub. The night Lisa ran over a raccoon and it smelled up the entire HYC. Good times at Mont St Anne...... Man I would get so frustrated when we argued all the time.. I knew you were right but I never wanted to admit it. It made me so angry. But now all those fights do is bring a smile to my face.... In only a few short days, it'll be a year that you've been gone. I still find myself struggling to believe that the whole thing is real. I don't know if it'll ever feel that way.... I don't know if I'll ever be at peace with the way we were when you passed. I mean you and I ALWAYS fought but most of the time it was for jokes. Except that last time we spoke where we actually left angry enough with each other that we didn't speak afterwards. I can't help but blame myself for the way our friendship had turned. You appeared in my dream that night shortly after your death to tell me it was all okay.... I thought you had come down as an angel to heal the pain I was feeling.... But I can't help but think that it may just be my conscience trying to lay it to rest. I think for that reason I refuse to believe that this has all really happened. It just doesn't seem fair. In times like these, I wish I had the strength that you had every day of your life. I think about you every day, James, I really miss you. These next few days are going to be really hard on everyone, especially your folks. I don't doubt that you will be watching, taking extra special care for your friends in this time, as our guardian angel. I can't bring myself to say goodbye, so... I'll see you up there man. Save me a good seat. Love you. Rest in peace....

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 6/2/2006 - - We know that these are very tough weeks for each of us. The CSST report is one of the most difficult tasks our family has experienced, one of the truly impossible things to fathom the full impact of ahead of time. We have waited long and patiently for the facts, so our reaction could be absolutely correct just once. …. We now know now, without a doubt, that this was a truly preventable death……. I often spoke to James about my greatest fear, as a parent, what I always called the “Blinding Moment of Stupidity” that kills far too many young people. I always told him that it could be either his own or a friend’s Blinding Moment of Stupidity that could be fatal. I never imagined that I would have to adjust to the reality of such an event……….. A dear friend told me once “Never attribute to malice what can be simply attributed to ignorance”. I don’t have the hatred in my heart or energy left to blame any one or few souls and destroy any further those lives already damaged. My heart is broken and empty enough now, adding hatred would be a bitter pill to swallow………… I will have to work hard and long to find the very thing that defines each of us as truly good humans, forgiveness…. Please recognize that this will be a long journey for all of us. I now find myself tremendously disappointed, and we have a documented right to be angry now, even though anger still comes so hard for me….. One no knows that had better training and planning been in place, we would not have to face the consequences of this unacceptable death. I choose to hold the entire structure and organization fully accountable not any one individual, although there were clearly individual failures. The organization that failed must understand this failure and must change to avoid another.……… To those who feel they bear any personal responsibility, I know your lives are very tough now too, but please remember that our family has the toughest task of all as we accept the failings of others to protect James’ life. We do not wish to see further destruction of the human spirit if we can avoid it. …. Now, you must each go through the rest of your lives being so much better, so much safer and so much more diligent than ever before. There is no longer any room for an error in judgment or another Blinding Moment of Stupidity ……. You must work harder than ever to prove again and again your worth to those around you and especially to yourselves. Another preventable accident on your watch must never happen; as it would prove without a doubt that you were unable to learn from your failures and therefore not worthy of forgiveness….. Put simply, the town, the firefighters and the individuals must first seek and then prove themselves worthy of forgiveness; you must know that our loss came at far too high a price for this to be given freely or easily. After a year the wound is now infected and larger than ever, so we must all heal now; and we should all work together to make that happen. This is the task our lives have chosen for us and it may define or destroy each of us. Let’s make the right choices and continue to be good people, so many are watching our community closely now

Jimmy / From: Carolyn C 6/3/2006 - - I miss you jimmy, it has almost been a year to the day and not one hour has gone by without a thought of you. you have left an ever lingering void in so many peoples lives that will forever be unreplaced. You are one in a Billion and I am still left with emotions that only you could explin to me how to handle!! :)just wanted to say a little note to you and your family saying that I love you and miss you all and that I will be by next week. Rest in Peace James ...

Jimmy / From: Trev 6/5/2006 - - Well Jimmy, it’s almost been a year buddy. I thought for sure that it would get easier as time passed, but it really hasn’t. We are all trying our best to get through every day, but it’s hard when you’re so used to a guy like James Ratcliffe being around. I’m sitting here Jimmy, on the eve of my birthday. Thinking about a year ago when I was lucky enough to sit down and drink a beer that you had bought me for my birthday. You were mad that you couldn’t make it out with me the night before, but that didn’t bother me. Just sitting there, talking and having a beer was all that I needed. It hurts to think that I won’t be able to do that again this year. It just won’t be the same without you buddy, and I’m sure it never will. I never would have thought that I would be celebrating my 21 birthday without you. There hasn’t been a day that’s gone by, where I haven’t thought of you. It makes it easier though, that all the memories that I have of you are positive ones. You lived life to the fullest, and you let me tag along for the ride. I thank you for that buddy. I miss you a lot bud, take care.

James / From: Flip 6/5/2006 - - It's the day before your one year anniversary, and I can`t believe a year has passed. I never know what to say on this site, because it seems like everything I think of just doesn`t do you any justice. For some reason, recently, I`ve been remembering all these little things you`ve taught me , or just small traits that I picked up from you, and as much as it makes me sad, it makes me so happy that I get to keep some of you with me all the time. People like you only come around so often , and I'm just so happy that I got to meet you those 18 years or so ago. I was lucky then to have met you, and I'm still lucky today. I can't tell you enough how much I miss you. Talk to you soon. All my love. Flip xx

James / From: Katie 6/5/2006 - - I called the Yacht Club one day to speak to my mom, and on the other end of the phone answered this smiling voice...I knew it was you James. If I had known that would be the last time that I would speak to you, maybe I would have said something different. Or maybe not...we exchanged hellos, joked for a few minutes....and then you wished me well, said I'll see you soon, and that was the end of our conversation. I remember when I reached my mom saying how kind you were....you meant everything you said, you really were happy to speak to me, and you were genuine when you asked me how I was doing. That kind of person is so hard to find....and yet there you were right in front of us. I, like everyone else, miss you every day, I really do. Your family and friends miss you too....but you know that. Tomorrow we'll celebrate your life, because that's what you would have wanted. Can't promise you there won't be any tears though....! Here's to a beautiful soul, a beautiful person who had a beautiful smile. K xxx

James / From: Cari 6/5/2006 - - Thanks James for giving me strength in my times of need. I think of you always and miss your hugs. Love Cari

James / From: Lisa 6/5/2006 - - Missing you. You know I love you, you always knew I did. The YC has changed without you, as everyone has. I will spend tomorow thankful for the last days we were able to share together, for all the lessons you taught me, and happy that I never hid my admiration for you. I miss you much more today than I did one year ago. Rest in peace.

James / From: Jenna 6/6/2006 - - James, I know today we will celebrate you. For those that knew you well, they will be able to smile and remember the cherished moments they shared with you. For those that know only your story, a story that has forever changed the lives of many, we will remember just how valuable our time is and how extrodinary people like you were walking among us. James I can't help but have a tear in my eye and a smile on my face when I look at your picture. You had such a great smile, I am sorry I never realized it sooner. You have done more for me then you'll ever know and for that I want to thank you. I know you will continue to inspire us and protect us. You, your family, those that you loved and loved you are in my thoughts and my heart. Especially today James. Cheers James, when I see you next, the first round's on me.

James, Family and Friends / From: Alison T. 6/6/2006 - - The following, Desiderata, was written many centuries ago. I have read it many times over the years but it seems to now hold a special place in my heart as I think of James and all of us who loved him so much. Please take time to read this as it holds many thoughts that have James' spirit written all over them. Rest in peace James and keep smiling down on us! Go placidly amid the noise & haste, & remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly & clearly; and listen to others, even the dull & ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud & aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain & bitter; for always there will be greater & lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity & disenchantment it is perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue & loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees & the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labours & aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery & broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.

James / From: Caitlyn Milot 6/6/2006 - - Dear James, This message has been sitting in my room now for a year, it was written four days after June 6th, 2005 and I think it is time I let you hear it. If it is a little all over the place, it is just because I was trying to collect my thoughts and let all that I was feeling out at the same time this time last year. This is one of these letters that I guess you wish you had said earlier on, but never quite got around to it. These past few days have been such a learning experiece for me, and I realized, in some way, this is just your leadership shinning through one more time, allowing me to realize these things. You were always such a wonderful leader in what you wanted to do, but more importantly, a team player and member. Thanks for being close to my dad and making him happy just from being on the team. You sometimes don't realize how much you miss a person until they are not there. I am slowly learning this lesson. But I know you will be here, in our hearts, our minds, our love, our memories. You will never be forgotten. I know you would have been a wonderful father, husband and at whatever you decided would make you the happiest in life. Thank you for teaching me in life and death James, the importance of being happy in life and of friends and family. In many wyas, I think we were very similar in high school and later on and it makes me happy and sad at the same time to realize this. James, I have and will always respect you. Rest in peace and know how much you are loved. Thank you for your guidance. Love, Caitlyn.

Diane, Peter&Jessica / From: Donna, Max & Fanny Karpman 6/6/2006 - - I have thought of your family and your beautiful son James often throughout this , your first year, of having to go on without him. I wanted to let you know that our family sends love to you all. May all of the love you have recieved this past year continue to sustain your family. The way that your family is living with this tragedy is an inspiration and humbling to us all. With much love and respect to you Diane, Peter, Jessica and to your precious son James. With sincere compassion, Donna, Max & Fanny Karpman

James, Family and Friends / From: Erin Roberts 6/6/2006 - - I know that I should have taken the time to write this a long time ago. However, I think I was being selfish and needed the time to realize what actually happened and the great loss that a wonderful community felt. I knew James years back in high school through the leadership program. James was the high light of many meetings and conferences. The loss of James will never settle with me because he was such a wonderful, exciting, and brilliant soul. He brought smiles to so many people, whether it be during the meetings, conferences, sports or just walking down the hall in school. I remember the days that I would walk down the halls of Hudson High and James seemed to jump out anywhere just to say hi or make someone laugh. To be honest I did not remember today until I opened my agenda and saw that it is the anniversary of his death. When seeing this my emotions went soring as they did last year. But the difference is that I have taken more time to read what others have said and what they were feeling. My hearts go out to you, his family, and friends that knew him longer then I did. I know that I have feeling sadness and I knew James a long time ago, I could not imagine what everyone that had a greater connection to him must be feeling. To Mr. Ratcliffe, I read the eulogy this morning that you gave at the funeral and I have to commend you on having such a beautiful and great relationship with you family and community. But the biggest message that I would like to tell you is that I have so much respect for you when you said that the teams that tried to help James were not at fault. In these situations it is easy to try to find someone to blame but you would not have it, and that is the greatest feeling. I am proud to say that I am from Hudson, I think that I use the fact that I am from Hudson at least once a day. That is because of the respect that you have shown towards others, the love that the community has shown to you and or family. Hudson is such a great community that yes, everyone knows eveyone else's business, but that allows us to be so close knit. That is the characteristic that I mention the most when talking about Hudson. I moved from Hudson two years ago, but when thinking of James, I remember all of the good times and why I love and miss Hudson so darn much. To everyone that I have ever met in Hudson, thank you for the wonderful pexperiences that you have given me, and when thinking of the town and James I can only be fill with pride. I think that is the reason why I felt that I should finally say James I miss you and think of you often, and to his family my heart goes out to you, and his friends, I know it is not easy but remember the way that James used to make you laugh, because frankly he was darn good at it.

Jessica,Diane & Peter / From: Linda McPhee(Zambon) 6/6/2006 - - A man of courage is also full of faith. *Cicero God bless you and give you comfort & peace. With love, Linda

James / From: an old friend 6/6/2006 - - i miss you alot james, especially today.......i cant believe a year has passed, it feels like just yesterday! watch over your family, friends and firefighters today - they need you the most right now. miising you.........love always.

Jess / From: Lyndsay 6/7/2006 - - I just wanted to let you know that you and your family are still in my thoughts and my heart.

James / From: Stephie 6/7/2006 - - Jimmy, we all had a beer for you last night at the yacht club - I know you would have liked it... beers and cheers... Still missing you every day, but I know that you are watching over all of us, keeping us safe. I'm sending you a hug.... stephie

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 6/8/2006 - - Story of an old soul… Perhaps this is a good time to share something healing, lighter, funny and at the same time a thought provoking deep view into James Ratcliffe that some of you may have heard before but many haven’t… I have often pondered the universe and still marvel at how a baby spider is born instinctively knowing how to spin a web and catch food, survive to reproduce and propagate itself without assistance, yet a human child appears to many of us as a helpless mostly blank canvas to be filled in as life goes by…I have come to believe that in addition to our DNA genetics, we somehow must carry into each of our own lives something that defines some deepest parts of our very soul, some preparation for what might come ahead in life…When James was a baby, barely two years old, he lost weight to the chagrin of our doctors and ourselves. Born robust and healthy at over nine pounds we were worried as he became a skinny bony toddler for a period… In the end, after many tests and examinations, nothing was wrong with his health, I myself was a skinny kid too for some time as was Diane, and we grew out of it. In the end, it was mainly that James didn’t want to give up his bottle and eat significant solid food… I remember sitting, trying to feed him dinner one day in his high chair and treating him like a tiny adult, negotiating with him, trying to get James to accept that he would one day have to become a “big boy” and eat “big boy food” because we all grow up and daddy, mommy and Jessica don’t have bottles. I continued this rational explanation for a while, wondering if we’d ever get through to him as he sucked enthusiastically on his bottle and simply looked me right in the eyes. Suddenly, James took the bottle from his mouth and said firmly and clearly: “I don’t want to be a big boy, I want to be an old baby”… All I could do was laugh out loud and say: “So do I buddy, so do I”… Think for a while about the thought and deeper meanings of that profound statement from the mouth of a child who had only recently learned to talk… Where does a two year old get such a complete, simple, concisely worded, yet tremendously deep view into what is basically the essence of the human male mentality?…From that point forward, I firmly believed that James had somehow been here before, or that he had been somehow gifted before birth with much knowledge and insight into the ways of the world he would be born into. James seemed to have much of life figured out before he arrived here and grew from there...Perhaps we all have this type of past knowledge and wisdom inside if we could only find a way or take the time to quiet the background noise of our lives and listen more carefully to our inner souls… We always thought that James was the very best of the kindest and gentlest of laughing smiling caring old souls delivered to us in an incredibly happy young body. James never disappointed any of us in that vision of him, in his life and in his death. I’m sure that his soul’s next journey will be even more exciting and wonderful, bringing immense happiness with it again. I do hope we all catch up to James someday; the immensity of what he left behind here for us after twenty years still absolutely amazes me… If you have stories of your own that provide insight into James, please share them with all of us who loved James. Love to all who loved James, Peter Ratcliffe

Peter / From: Rosemarie Jutras 6/10/2006 - - Peter, upon reading the latest message you wrote, I have to tell you of the time our son Dru was at Katimavik in his 8th grade. His mentor was James. When I picked Dru up on the final evening, I asked him what the best part of the whole two days was...it was when the group sat in a big circle and it was James turn to speak of his feelings on the time spent together at Katimavik and James began to cry while he spoke about the team he headed up and the time they spent together. He spoke clearly and deeply about each member of his team. This would be James' last year to go to Camp and you could see these words were not the words of a sixteen year old boy. Yes, I believe James was an old soul. That moment is etched in Dru's mind forever. James showed the group that its OK to cry in public and to share your feelings and to tell people how great they are and how they can change the world one kind jesture at a time.

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 6/16/2006 - - Today, June 16, 2006, is the James Ratcliffe Memorial Golf Tournament hosted by Como Golf club. Como Golf Club came forward within weeks of James' death with this great idea for a charity event. Our family would like to thank Como Golf Club for the incredible hard work of the members as well as the inconvenience to club members for this charitable undertaking. Como will cover only their minimum costs and not even take greens fees from the money raised, allowing the maximum contribution raised to flow to local Hudson charities of our choice. The Hudson Volunteer Firefighters have also contributed very significantly to the fundraising by selling raffle tickets prior to the event and many will play golf. We are thrilled to have this event happen, it is a very positive legacy to celebrate a very positive life. James loved golf, starting with the Junior program at Como at age ten for a couple of summers. It was a wonderful start to years of enjoyment from golf, especially the great times he spent over five summers with his grandfather Yvon Guindon and Yvon's golfing buddies. The most exciting part of those summers golfing with Grandpa's friends was learning choice selections of the French language that were apparently overlooked in the teaching at Ecole Primaire Harwood. The rest of our family are beginners at golf, still exploring the most frustrating parts of hittting a small ball with a funny stick. Obviously the Scottish were playing a joke on the world and the world bit, the Scots are still laughing. James was a natural golfer who especially enjoyed the social aspect of spending time playing and laughing with good friends. We're very happy to have these positive legacies benefit the community needs and also to remind us that the gentle ripples of a life lived so well can continue forever in the right quiet pond and the help of many caring people. FORE!!!!

Diane, Peter & Jess, / From: The Wright Family 6/20/2006 - - Our thoughts are with you, again, at this time ......every life is a miracle that changes the world. Though life is not as it was before, and never will be again, our memories are much richer, than if love had never been. Our family keeps you close in our hearts and our thoughts, as many others also do. With each memory, let our hearts be reminded, that nothing can take away the beauty that we have all known. We pray that God will send you peace and hope and lots of laughs, as we think of those fun and funny thoughts of James. Summer has begun, and with that, thought of the HYC with Jenn and Laura.....

Peter,Diane,Jessica / From: Aunt CAthy 9/11/2006 - - After seeing the clip on the news last night I had to view this site to remember what a special and wonderful family member and young man James was. I think about him everyday in my thoughts and wish that time could be turned back and that day in June could be reversed. But, I just hope and pray that James is safe and resting in peace in a wonderful place that we will all be joining him in time. I know that he is sadly missed by the three of you as well as many many others. I am proud of how you have handled this time in your lives. Love you all. Love Always, Cathy

the ratcliffe's / From: reid 9/30/2006 - - i never dreamt it could be this way. i've lost any chance for me to say. to say that i miss you. to say that i love you. will someone please tell me i'm ok. no one was prepared for what was to come. a life made of memories gone so young. now i am regretting all that i've done. but in my heart i kow that your with me all along...

James / From: a teacher 11/30/2006 - - There are few and far between like you James. Your smile radiated and your energy filled a room; every room. We are all far more fortunate than we realize. Your life reminds us of this everyday. You truly are an inspiration. You held firm to your beliefs and you made your own path. Nothing will ever change this or what you continue to mean to us.

All / From: Irene 12/5/2006 - - I can't be bothered with anything recently. It's not important. More or less nothing noteworthy going on right now, but I don't care. I've pretty much been doing nothing. Shrug.

Peter, Diane and Jessica / From: Aunt Cathy 12/18/2006 - - As Christmas approaches, you are in my thoughts and prayers as I know that we all wish that James were here to spend the holidays with you. He remains in our hearts, memories and thoughts always remembered as the wonderful person he was. He is and always will be missed by me. I love all of you and wish you peace as you get through another Christmas season. Love to you CAthy

Everyone / From: Peter Ratcliffe 12/21/2006 - - We'd be glad to see any of James' friends over the holidays. Time doesn't make days any easier, but we enjoy seeing those who were closest to James and talking about James. My column for Christmas week fits well here, so I've posted it as my Christmas message for all to ponder.

Weekly Itch #11
Published Hudson/St. Lazare Gazette December 20, 2006

Title: The gift of today

Charity and helping others is the purest and most timeless beauty of both love and life itself.

Except for wonderful time spent with family and friends and turkey dinner enjoyed to the point of personal stupidity and pain, Christmastime is not my favourite part of the year.

Marketers seeking profit have long ago hijacked what I see as the true spirit of Christmas. Intense media bombards us with endless messages having nothing to do with the fundamental meanings and messages of Christmas. The commercial background noise telling us what we need and how to celebrate our own holiday is deafening.

In some perversion of holiday spirit, this year’s shortage of a hot new video game became a wave of unconscionable profiteering and crime. All so that a few might possess this game months before others could. That game will likely be in stock everywhere by March, but this pre-Christmas frenzy is gross and disgusting. That there were people to participate and feed this materialistic frenzy is a scary symptom of something deeply wrong in some lives.

Parents on limited budgets get talk radio advice on how to prepare their children for the inevitable disappointment the kids face when they don’t get everything they’ve asked for. Those who have less are wrongly made to feel that they are less.

I’ve come full circle to realize that the noise, confusion, materialism and other things that I don’t like about Christmastime aren’t part of a real Christmas after all.

I don’t need or want anything material. I’m impossible to shop for and can’t even list anything that I might want. Losing one of the most valuable and joyous parts of my life, I’ve been given the opportunity to explore, confront and learn what is truly valuable to me. Conclusion: Things are dead last; family and friends are way out in first.

Seeking to understand loss has caused me to identify and celebrate the greatest gifts of my life: We created, nurtured and so deeply loved a truly wonderful loving son. Not just for one single day. It will never seem long enough, but we were truly blessed with him for over twenty years. We have helped create a daughter who is every bit as wonderful too. Priceless gifts.

The only wish I want for Christmas is both free and priceless. It is under appreciated and often taken for granted. It’s something I’ll never get enough of, already had lots of and hope to have much more of. I wish for it every night and, and so far, I get my wish every morning. My nightly wish: I want another day tomorrow to experience and enjoy this gift of life.

As we awaken each morning, we are gifted another day to do with as we please. We can fritter it away on useless or destructive activities if we choose. We can seek material or spiritual wealth. We can seek knowledge, meaning, love, or companionship to turn our dreams to reality. We can be positive or negative, good or evil, angry or happy, greedy or generous, deep or shallow, hateful or loving. We can grow or diminish by our own actions. We can go nowhere, somewhere or anywhere. It is our own choice how we use this gift.

Christmas, or whichever holiday you celebrate is just that simple blessing of one more day. What makes any single day exceptional is how we choose to use it and the feelings that we can experience that day. Perhaps the true magic of Christmas is that it creates and sets aside a well defined opportunity for special time to share joy with family and friends.

I will choose to celebrate this Christmas like each other day of my life: I’ll bask in and enjoy the unimaginable wealth of being alive today to share the love of family and friends.

I hope you join me and celebrate your own lives daily. Merry Christmas.

James family / From: Douglas Ratcliffe (Scotland) 1/13/2007 - - I was just doing some searching on the name Ratcliffe and came across your website for James. It is a touching tribute to such a fine looking young man. I never knew him, but know of all the good that he would have done for others in the line of duty. They are all heros. I just had to let you know I was here. God Bless.

The Ratcliffes / From: Jenn 2/12/2007 - - Just thinking of James and your family tonight in the wake of the two tragic car accidents that occurred within the last week. So sad to hear that another family has been devastated by such a preventable cause. I hope you're doing well... thinking of you!

The Ratcliffes / From: Sarah Tuck 2/16/2007 - - I just discovered this site through that new internet fad called "Facebook" - and I am really touched by reading people's messages and especially the one posted by Mr. Ratcliffe this time last year. James comes into my thoughts often. My memories of James are as a kid, when I used to come over to play with Jessica - I especially recall his energy and fervour. Love to you all -Sarah

James / From: Flip 3/22/2007 - - Happy Birthday James, I miss you more than i can say Love always

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 3/22/2007 - - Today would have been James' 22nd birthday and birthdays were always a big thing for James. The loss is forever immense and imponderable, the challenge of seeking acceptance daunting, and it remains hard to find laughter and joy that was so naturally a part of our lives.... In memory of his birthday, please take some time today to reflect on how fortunate we all were to have known James and find one small thing where you might aspire to be more like James to improve your own lives and the world around you. Oh, and it can't involve drinking more or partying more.

James' Family and Friends / From: Laura Di Genova 3/22/2007 - - I only knew James through school, I remember he was a year older than I was and at the time was dating Alex Olliver. Only good things were to be told of James and I always knew he was a very good person, even though we had a hi and bye relationship. I only wish I could of gotten to know him alittle bit more. Rest in Peace James.. you will always be in our hearts xox

James / From: Laura DiGenova 3/22/2007 - - Happy Birthday James Rest In Peace Miss seeing your smiling face! xox

Peter,Diane and Jess / From: The Cassidys 3/22/2007 - - Trevor and Josie are here with us for dinner to-night and we all want you to know that we are thinking of you and as always remembering James. We won't ever forget. We send our love.

The Ratcliffes / From: Flip 6/6/2007 - - I'm thinking of you all today. Love always Flip xox

James / From: Dawn Croydon 6/6/2007 - - Missing you still, today and always...

Peter, Diane & Jessica / From: Dawn Croydon 6/6/2007 - - Everyday is still hard. But today we are not alone in our thoughts. May we find strength in our shared thoughts and prayers. Peter, Diane and Jessica I and the members of HFD are thinking of you today and always.

James / From: Madison 6/6/2007 - - Hey James...I've been hanging out with these French people lately, and every time they say the word "rigolo" I want to look up at you and yell "I told you so!" I know that's the stupidest thing, but it's that sort of thing that just kills me. 2 years and I can't get my head around it. I miss you.

Ratcliffe Family / From: Sue Denis 6/6/2007 - - To: The Ratcliffe Family, Friends, HFD and To My Daughter Janine In Loving Memory of James
Every day, in some small way,
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are ever near,
Still missed, still loved, and very dear.
Forever In Our Hearts!!

Friends / From: Peter Ratcliffe 6/6/2007 - - Fatherly advice for today: As hard as it might be, share today with best friends sharing memories of James. Walk into every room with a huge James smile celebrating James' memory as he would have wanted you to. To those who didn't know James, please know that you missed someone exceptional. To those who knew and loved James, you have learned the pain of losing someone exceptional who loved all of you. The more you love others, the more you hurt when they are taken from us, but love deeply anyway. The pain is a reminder of how well you loved. Never stop looking for ways to live more, love more and learn more, you will become ever more valuable to yourself and the world around you. May you all find peace and happiness in life

James / From: Vanessa 6/6/2007 - - You are so missed. Hugs and kisses for Peter, Diane and Jess. Love you always James.

Peter, Diane & Jessica / From: Linda McPhee(Zambon) 6/6/2007 - - You are all in my thoughts and prayers........always.

James / From: Leigh 6/7/2007 - - Spent the day yesterday thinking of you, and remembering everything I can about you.69140 You have given me the ablitliy to love more deeply than I ever expected I could and no matter how much time goes by I will always remember what you meant to this world and me. I am still learning things from you, thank you for that.. and everything.

Jess / From: Lynds 9/4/2007 - - You and your brother are always in my thoughts.

Peter,Diane,Jess / From: Carolyn 9/13/2007 - - I just wanted to say that I am always learning from James and still not a day goes by that the thought of him doesnt make me smile. I hope you are all hanging in there as best as may be. Your always in my thoughts. Love - Carolyn C

James / From: Melissa 10/20/2007 - - James, I've been thinking about you and missing you so much lately...I think about you every day but more now than ever before. I think it's because I'm in Ottawa now and I keep wishing that you were still going to school here so I could see you...I want that more than anything, to see you. I just hope you know how much I miss you and that you were a big part of my life. I can't really think of many times in my life when you weren't there and I think that's why I can't get used to this feeling. I guess I just wanted to say I miss you. Love Melissa

James / From: Elias 12/16/2007 - - James, all I can say is I am blessed to have meet you. A real honor. A true inspiration. Thank you my friend.

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